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Help!! I'm being compaired to neighbor down street.

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Hello, everyone I haven't posted much but read eveyday, I have a situation developing, my neighbor down street had lap band in April 08, he has lost 85lbs, my mother in law keeps telling me eveytime I see her how much he has lost and wants to know how much I have lost, my surgery wasn't until July 08, I have lost 30lbs, she keeps insinuating that I must be doing something wrong, because my weight isn't just falling off like crazy, I haven't even had a fill, as long as I am losing Dr. said he didn't think I needed one. I get so frustrated with her, she is a very nice person, but doesn't think before she speaks or how it might affect the person talking to. Sorry so long just had to vent, thanks for listening.

 

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Hello, everyone I haven't posted much but read eveyday, I have a situation developing, my neighbor down street had lap band in April 08, he has lost 85lbs, my mother in law keeps telling me eveytime I see her how much he has lost and wants to know how much I have lost, my surgery wasn't until July 08, I have lost 30lbs, she keeps insinuating that I must be doing something wrong, because my weight isn't just falling off like crazy, I haven't even had a fill, as long as I am losing Dr. said he didn't think I needed one. I get so frustrated with her, she is a very nice person, but doesn't think before she speaks or how it might affect the person talking to. Sorry so long just had to vent, thanks for listening.

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Tell her that everyone loses at different rates...and for some reason men seem to lose faster than women do anyway. I know they mean well but...

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