Well I am heading to Mexico, this morning (its 1:15 am). Please pray for me. I look at my three year old son and wonder if I am doing the right thing. What if something goes wrong in Mexico and my son is left without a mother? Is this just my vanity?

I have struggled with a weight issue all my life, God knows I tried everything to lose the weight and keep it off.

Thanks for the great support

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Relax - you are doing this to be a better mother to your son. To be active in his life. I will pray for your safe journey. Best of luck! I went to MX too - everything was wonderful. You'll be back before you know it!

Hi Judy! I'll definitely be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers until you return.

Have a safe trip and I wish you all the best.

I've thought much the same thing.. am I selfish for wanting to do this? What will happen if things go wrong? Am I wrong to spend this much money on myself? .... I'm divorced and have an 8 yr old son, my parents live close and we visit every Sunday .. they are always willing to help me care for him. So, I am indeed fortunate.

I've come to realize, that if I don't get control of the weight now it will continue to go up and lead to more serious health problems. So, I CHOOSE good health and a happy future! Claim what you know you deserve! Think positive thoughts!

wishing you a quick recovery,

Best wishes Judy, I am sure all will turn out well and you will be on the losing side in no time.

Sending now! We'll see you in bandland!

Hi Judy,

I know exactly what you're going through. I had my band done in february, when my daughter was two and a half. I have never been afraid of things like surgery, or really thought about my own mortality, until then. It just about drove me crazy but i knew that it would make me a more active, and happy person, therefore making me a more capable mother ( although i was 100 pounds heavier than you ). I knew that the minimal risk was worth it. It didn't help my nerves though.

Anyway, but the time you read this it will all be over and you'll be on the road to recovery, and a better life. be prepared for a bumpy road, and probably not at all you what expect - but it's interesting.

Take care, Rachel.

Ahhh, I remember so well the feelings you are having. The prayers and good wishes of the nice folks here held me up. Know that I and others are praying. (((((hugs))))) and let us know when you arrive home banded with a new life ahead of you!!!

Having this surgery was one of the biggest and hardest decisions I have ever had to make because of my 3 yr old and 1 1/2 yr old. I felt the same way you do, what if I leave my children without a mother? but I also saw it as if I stay in my current condition I would guarantee my children would have a mother by the time I was 40. I was so overweight and unhealthy, I tried so many diets I just had to do something. If I had to do it all over again I would do it in a heartbeat, the band is the best thing ever it has changed my life. In just 5 1/2 months i am down 90 lbs and can keep up with my kids, take them to the park, play games with them. not just sit on the couch and watch from the sidelines.

You are doing this not only for your own health but so you will be here for a long time to come, to be a fit and healthy mother. You'll do great!

everything will be fine! :) have a nice journey! we will wait you in Bandlandia!

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Judy, Best of luck to you, you are in good hands with Dr. Ortiz. He and his staff will take great care of you

Here's wishing you the best of luck and see you in bandland. Celeste

Trust in God and prayer...I am saying a prayer for you and sending it your way! You will be just fine.....relax, be calm....you will be home and banded soon.

I am on the prayer bandwagon right with the rest of them. You will do great. See you in Bandland!

DeeDee

Good luck! I was scared on Friday when I went it, but here I am - 14 pounds lighter already, and going back to work this afternoon! You'll be fine in no time!

Our prayers go with you!