I am very new to this whole process, but have been gobbling up all of the info that I can over the past couple of days here and online...I am 32 years old, with three children (aged 3, 2, and 1) Unfortunately, since they are all adopted, I cannot blame the weight on three back-to-back pregnancies!! :crying: I lost my father earlier this year and I am scared to death to ever have my children feel the same sadness/anger because I didn't do everything that I could to be happy and healthy...anyway, I am dying to get more info (especially from those in the Richmond VA area or other stay at home moms) My biggest concern is if I will be able to care for my children adequately in the weeks following banding/should I get a nanny for that time. I have my informational seminar on 10/8. At this point in time, I am ready to move forward and begin my new life! I see that this is such a great resource/support site! Thanks already!! :thumbup:

Congratulations! I can tell you that most of us are restricted to lifting no more than 15 pounds for the first 2-3 weeks post op (each surgeon is different but that's fairly standard) so yes, help is definitely indicated!

I am a stay at home mom who works part time at night when my kids are sleeping. I must say I have a two year old and it has been difficult not to pick her up. She can get into her car seat on her own, but I imagine with a 1 year old that may be somewhat more difficult. I think you may want to have some help. I have a restriction of no lifting for 4 weeks. You won't want to be doing any heavy lifting anyway. You need time for your body to heal. Good luck! Tamara