Okay girls...this question is a little embarrassing but yeah I need to know.

After I get banded will I still be able to please my boyfriend and then...swallow what he gave me? I know a bit weird...but it's something I've always done...

Just wondering...:thumbup:

ok. I was reading the thing about vibrators. I personaly dont like them because the buzzing kinda numb things. BUT one of my Ex's liked it doggy style and I didnt becauseI could NEVER cum that way. But he was doing it and all of a sudden he reached arround and put a vibrator on my clit. Man I came like a wild person...So a little experimintation is a nice thing.

I think you should talk with him get him to get some good magazines like "variations" which has some good stories in it...You can read them find something you like and ask him if he wants to try it. TRUST me he is not going to be freaked out that you want to spice up your sex life a little. You both benifit from it. You just need to find out what gets you off. It may be a mental thing. It may be a physical thing. You just need to figure it out and go get you yours.

OH and I am SUPER shy in person when it comes to sex and me. lol

On here it is no big deal lol

I once dated a guy who couldn't keep an erection, and wouldn't use any pills. He was by the far, the best lover that I ever had when it came to pleasing me. I can't really describe why, but it was all what I wanted, he wanted a bj and sex for the few minutes he could keep it up. He was the one that introduced me to sex toys because before him, never even looked at one in person.

So, for anyone that is not sure on using toys, don't be afraid. You can experience sensations that you never thought you had.

I have not heard of this magazine variations. Is that like Pent House or something?

My daughter is trying to talk me into one of those "fun parties" Maybe that's what I need so I can look at stuff. I know there are sex toys but I have never seen anything except for a vibrator called a magic

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Maybe put it in a cup and sip it through a straw?!?!

hahaha

i have not heard of this magazine variations. Is that like pent house or something?

My daughter is trying to talk me into one of those "fun parties" maybe that's what i need so i can look at stuff. I know there are sex toys but i have never seen anything except for a vibrator called a magic

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the fun parties can be a blast!

great for discounts too!

I got a new toy in the mail today....looks like a rabbit vibe but it's blue. :cursing: hehehehehe.

The rabbits are the best!

the fun parties can be a blast!

So what is this magazine you mentioned. I used to read mags to get in the mood years ago but I have not heard of this one. Pent House is pretty raunchy.

ok. I was reading the thing about vibrators. I personaly dont like them because the buzzing kinda numb things. BUT one of my Ex's liked it doggy style and I didnt becauseI could NEVER cum that way. But he was doing it and all of a sudden he reached arround and put a vibrator on my clit. Man I came like a wild person...So a little experimintation is a nice thing.

I'm glad you said this because I hadn't seen anywhere where anyone had answered Denise's question about positions. Doggy is by far the easiest when you want a little manual stimulation to go with things (and the combination of the two is why that's my favourite! ). Whether it's him doing the reacharound, you doing it yourself, by hand or with a vibe, that position gives you the easiest access. Try it Denise, I think you'll like it :wink2:.

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I have not heard of this magazine variations. Is that like Pent House or something?

My daughter is trying to talk me into one of those "fun parties" Maybe that's what I need so I can look at stuff. I know there are sex toys but I have never seen anything except for a vibrator called a magic

bullet.

The magizine is full of stories. some pictures but not like what you normaly get. It has a bunch of graphic sex stories in it. I love the magazine. You should google it. Or have you man Pick one up at the store...I am usualy too embarased to buy them in person lol

But go online and find it...I got my latest subscription thru Amazon.com. lol

I would sugest you also look on-line for toys Adam&eve.com is pretty good. Nice selection for women.

But the parties are fun if you can get over the embarasement factor...But the toys their are expensive...IMHO.

I'm glad you said this because I hadn't seen anywhere where anyone had answered Denise's question about positions. Doggy is by far the easiest when you want a little manual stimulation to go with things (and the combination of the two is why that's my favourite! :wub:). Whether it's him doing the reacharound, you doing it yourself, by hand or with a vibe, that position gives you the easiest access. Try it Denise, I think you'll like it :smile:.

Yeah doggie style is the easiest. for using toys. But for me, getting really arroused before is the key for orgasm. If I am only "kinda" in the mood then I wont have one. I will fake it, so he will stop trying. lol and I can go to sleep. lol I know that is so wrong but If I am not completly in the mood I am not going to have one. lol

ok. I was reading the thing about vibrators. I personaly dont like them because the buzzing kinda numb things. BUT one of my Ex's liked it doggy style and I didnt becauseI could NEVER cum that way. But he was doing it and all of a sudden he reached arround and put a vibrator on my clit. Man I came like a wild person...So a little experimintation is a nice thing.

My favorite possition! And I also never really cared for vibrating toys, I can live without the battey operated stuff. But We have one toy that is so realistic if you run it under hot water its warm and soft but hard at the same time. And its got just enough of a curve to it it hits all the right spots.

I think you should talk with him get him to get some good magazines like "variations" which has some good stories in it...You can read them find something you like and ask him if he wants to try it. TRUST me he is not going to be freaked out that you want to spice up your sex life a little. You both benifit from it. You just need to find out what gets you off. It may be a mental thing. It may be a physical thing. You just need to figure it out and go get you yours.

Oh man I love to read erotica. BF just brought home a book last week that suprised me that he bought at work (Walgreens) Author was Christine Warren. An excelent sci-fi writer. But its not your typical romance novel. No its a bit more grapic than that. lol But she seems to do alot with vampires, werewolves, werecats, fae etc. Theres also a book club out there somewhere too I can't recall the name of it offhand. Venus I think?

OH and I am SUPER shy in person when it comes to sex and me. lol

On here it is no big deal lol

Much easier to talk about it online then in RL lol.

i write it in my spare time...ive read it to friends and theyve given me nothing but positive feedback...

Can you actually read the magazine online?

We have one toy that is so realistic if you run it under hot water its warm and soft but hard at the same time. And its got just enough of a curve to it it hits all the right spots.

Where do I get one of these? I have looked at adameve.com but I don't want to waste a lot of money on something that doesn't work.

If someone would just tell me what to order, I would just get whatever has been tested by my lap band friends. If the stuff at the parties is

more expensive than what I can get online, I want to get it online.