I really want to have the lapband surgery. I have my surgery scheduled on June 16th. I have the loan ready to go since my insurance wont pay for it.

NOW all the sudden my mom and husband are second guessing my decision and wondering if it is a waste of money. My husband is a coke a holic and is having a hard time with that and us going out to the bars. Can you drink? If so what can you drink?

Anyone have second thoughts or regrets? I think this is my only tool that is going to help me get back to me.

The band was the best thing I have done for myself. I do not look at it as giving up something such as sodas or bread, but I look at it as gaing a new life for myself. The only things I am giving up are diabetes, high blood pressure and sleep apnea. period. I have lost twenty pounds since I started my pre-op diet until now and all I can say is wow. My clothes do not fit me tight anymore, I can walk two or three miles without huffing and puffing. I am very happy with my band.

I feel the same way, Coco. And think of how much funner it will be shopping for clothes in NORMAL sizes!

I would strongly encourage you to put yourself first. Think of your health and what is best for you. It's disappointing that your husband isn't putting your health first, but you have to make this choice for you and a longer, happier future! Standing up for yourself and doing what you know is right for you, will make you feel great too.

I think it's natural to have second thoughts.... most of us go through a time where we wonder if we're making the right decision, but I think that just shows that we're being realistic about it and thinking it through carefully!

I was banded on May 15th; I was self-pay too and one small consolation is that the cost is tax deductlble, so I'll get a small portion of the money back in early 2009.

Good luck to you! I am sure if you have the surgery, you will be very glad you did.