I have surgery in less than a month and though I have worked hard for this, I am beginning to feel very nervous about the surgery and the life I will lead afterwards. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over those feelings or learn to handle them a bit better? Some days I am fine but this past week I am getting more and more in my head about the entire process. Also, any tips that helped you after surgery?

I’m writing this from my hospital room after surgery yesterday. I was a WRECK the month before surgery, but I’m happy to report it honestly wasn’t terrible. Maybe not the most fun I’ve had, but I’m up and about, walking, eating jello & drinking water. Hopefully getting discharged today.

My best suggestion is to keep your eyes on the prize. About a week ago, I was so anxious about surgery that I almost canceled. I pushed through and I’m so glad I did, even if I’m in a bit of pain rn. Also, follow all directions when you get into your room. Walking has helped me a lot. And be honest about your pain. They dosed me around the clock and it has really helped. Ice packs helped me too. Be super transparent about how you are feeling post-op & remember the drs & nurses are there to help you (this was an important lesson for me to learn because I hated the thought of bothering anyone).

Youve got this! Hang in there ?

Welcome,

I had some reservations before surgery, but I worked hard and remembered why I started the journey. I'm 11 weeks post-op and am grateful for my surgeon and the procedure. Everything went smoothly, my "anatomy was perfect" according to my surgeon and when he asked how I was doing and the pain, I said, "what pain, am I supposed to feel pain?" We both laughed. My diabetes went into remission, no insulin or oral meds since surgery. Stopped the GLP1 2 weeks before surgery, never got hungry, didn't phase me really. No hunger after surgery but a lot of weight loss by following my meal plan set up by my nutritionist. Clear liquids was the hardest, we didn't have puree stage, we went to soft foods/protein. This is definitely a lifestyle change, and after 6 weeks, I was able to return to the gym. I'm happy and the reservation I had quickly passed.

Suggestions, cut your toe nails before surgery, can't do it after surgery because you are not to bend or twist about while your stomach is healing, it is major surgery. Bring with the best lip balm you have as you will be dry after, and drinking should not be an issue. If you feel the need to have lots of support and good information from fellow patients or a licensed social worker, mental health provider or nutritionist, along with community, I recommend to everyone to join BariNation. It costs a little each month but the community is great. Barination.mn.co is the address. Hope to see you around the Nation.

Totally normal to feel nervous, you're not alone. I’m pre-op too, and the closer it gets, the more my mind spirals sometimes. Talking it out here really helps. You’ve worked hard for this, trust the process.

Hello! I am new to this forum and wanted to know how surgery went and how you are doing? I am struggling with being super hungry right now since I am on my 10-day pre surgery blended liquid diet. My RNY surgery is next Wednesday the 12th. I am a bit nervous as it gets closer but like others have said I have worked so hard up to this point that I cannot give up now. Hope everything went well!