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Relationships and WLS

I am 5 months post-op and have been seeing this guy for the last 6 months and just recently in the last 2 weeks he has become shady and not himself.. today while I dinner with my parents he told me I looked like a hooker and that he doesn’t like all the attention I get now... I am feeling insecure about myself and my relationship with him... can anyone help with this topic? I just feel lost and alone..

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Wow! It sounds like you got out just in time!

Good for you. Keep going, there will be a happy life for you on the other side of this! ?

12 hours ago, lex2287 said:

he went on an alcohol bender after he hit me and got himself in some serious trouble with law enforcement.

Thank heavens for that! He proved your case for you. Hope all goes well!

That's one rotten ? think he's so far gone you couldn't even use him in a cider press.

I am 5 months post-op and have been seeing this guy for the last 6 months and just recently in the last 2 weeks he has become shady and not himself.. today while I dinner with my parents he told me I looked like a hooker and that he doesn’t like all the attention I get now... I am feeling insecure about myself and my relationship with him... can anyone help with this topic? I just feel lost and alone..

He doesn't sound like a very nice guy.

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