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Hi all--

I'm new to this site. I have mostly been reading others' posts. Today I go for pre-admission testing appointments. If all goes well my surgery is scheduled for 10/22. I'm nervous and excited all at once. I've been feeling rather stressed these last few days about a number of things and I'm sure that isn't helping my mindset right now. I guess I just need some reassurance that I can get through this and I'm not alone on the journey. I'm wondering how my age (41) is going to have an impact on this. I've been overweight since I was about 10 years old. It has been a roller coaster and that's kind of how I feel emotionally right now. :)

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I have not been banded yet but November 1 it is scheduled. I am 54 years old and am not concerned about the age thing. There is a thread of over 50 people that made me feel better about that. Just keep reading a lot and try and stay away from the negative ones. If I find that someone is wineing I stop reading, I don't need that right now. I have already made my mind up and all I want to read is positive things. Most people are very happy about their band after the first couple of months, that's what I am living for today. Good luck:D, I am right behind you.

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Kimmi, Congrats on the upcoming date. You will do just fine. If I can make it thru the liquids and mushies, anyone can. It does take some willpower though. Keep reading and posting when you have questions....Dave

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Hi,

I must say that this site ahs really helped me and my emotional ride! I am a little nervous but all the great advice is getting me ready for my big day. I too worried about my age (55) and it is great to know there are other like me out there. I'm excited, nervous, scared and ready! Sometimes all at the same time.

Hang in there all and together we will make it through!

Thanks for being there!:eek:

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You are all so awesome--thanks for becoming part of my safety (support net)! You're the best!

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Kimmi- It is so worth it! Just think about the first time you hear someone say, "Wow, you have lost a lot of weight!" Today one of the teachers at my son's school called me a skinny mom. I wanted to jump for joy! It feels so damn good! Plus, think about your health. I am off my Lipitor and my blood sugar is great! It is worth every second of liquids and mushies! You can do it! You go girl! Good luck!!!!!!!

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Kimmi,

:clap2: I am happy for you. It is normal to be nervous. You will do just fine. I am 46 and had no problems. My date was Aug. 15, I have lost 24 Lbs. Some days are harder than others, but this site always helps me through the tough times. Welcome to bandland!

JP

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Hi Kimmi, welcome to bandland. I am 40 and was banded last June. The surgery was really easy for me. I had a little bit of nausea but that was cured with anti nausea medication. I had no gas. The port site was sore for about 2 weeks. You will do great. Good luck.

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Hi All,

I too will be banded on October 30, 2007 at the University of Penn Hospital by Dr. Noel Williams. I am both scared and excited, I look forward to a new healthier me! I am will be 51 in November but don't think it will be an issue.

I welcome your support as I begin my journey!

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Hi All

Thanks for the shopping list information and what I should expect after surgery. I am getting the jitters as I get closer to time for my surgery. I will find out on Oct. 24th when the day will be. I know I want it before Thanksgiving. If I have to be tested, it may as well be around a holiday.

Continue to pray my strength.

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Thank you all. I've got a week to go and that nervousness is really starting to set in. Reading all your posts and encouragement helps. Some of the posts I read add to the nervousness but others really help. I'm sure this week will be a crazy and emotional one.

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Hi All,

I am also new to this site, have been reading for a couple of months now. It really helped me understand the scars, and what to expect. I am scheduled for Tuesday 10/16. I was bumped up from 10/23, and said ok. I am nervous also, worried about post-op pain, gas, ect... Any suggestions on a shopping list for post-op liquid diet. Any tips would be appreciated. I am not looking forward to tomarrow, because I am on a clear liqiud diet all day. I hope I can do it without a terrible headache. Any tips on what to eat after surgery??? What Protein Shakes taste best?? Well any help would be so appreciated and wish me luck.

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Kimmi,

I am 36, and this surgery (performed Oct. 11) was the easiest I have ever been through. I have had 2 C-sections, Gal Bladder removal, Tonsilectomy, had wisdom teeth cut out, and foot surgery. Again, this one has been the easiest to get through. It isnt a walk in the park, but it isnt horribly bad either. I will return to work tomorrow, 4 days post operative. I am a Kindergarten teacher. I know I will not be all bubbly and energetic, but I will be able to work. Just make sure to do all that your doc tells you, you will be fine.

I like the advice given earlier, dont listen to the whiney posts!

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