seriously how long did you wait to have sex??

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20years the first time. You?

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My doctor says you don't have to wait at all after surgery, as long as you feel up to it you can do it. I am pre-surgery so I don't know how I will feel after surgery but I can tell you we won't wait long. There are different ways to do things that require less effort in the beginning (I have had 4 huge babies, I understand starting back slow)

20years the first time. You?

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hahahaha, same here

how long did you wait to have sex??

@@bellabeans

hmmmmm

doc said i could have sex when i felt healthy, physically ok

i'm almost 5 years PO

hubby is still waiting

kidding bud

i was told to wait a couple of weeks

doc also said no somersaults/back flips, high kicks etc for a while!!!! LOL

God Grant Me Patience, Just Hurry Up About It!!

good luck

kathy

19 looong days....

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Fooling around 2 days post op. Slow and steady 5 days. Like a teenager with raging hormones... 9 days.

post op day 4-- from the back-- on my side... hope that makes sense. Think of spooning. It was more for him than for me but at least that set him straight for awhile.

Good question, I was going to ask the doctor that one. I don't think my man will wait long either. I will do good if I can wait two weeks.

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I say two weeks because we usually don't see each other during the week. He works afternoons and I work days. I'm off work due to a knee surgery and going on the 20th for my sleeve surgery and he has already surprised me before going to work.

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No restriction on when from my doc, just whenever I felt up to it. So, 3 or 4 days post-op.

I waited 10 days!

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Got an awkward boner as I was waking up in my room.

Could't help it.....my surgeon had three female med students with him that had been there during my final pre-op appointments......all were attractive....one of them, though......whew......stronger than new rope.

Anyway....I knew as I was waking up....all was well with the landing gear as it was deploying.....this knowledge came before I'd even been told the surgery was a success by surgeon or other staff.

I waited until being discharged from hospital to give it a test run......the IV lines would have been cumbersome.........

@@Candygyrl YES, that is exactly what I was going to say, spooning. Works great and doesn't require much effort.

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I would say two weeks, I may make it a week

Dr said after 4 days or so would be fine.

I was ready at 2 weeks. Literally cringing hearing of people going sooner. I would have died trying it in the first week.

We ACTUALLY got to it after 3 weeks because my husband had a vasectomy during my second week postop and had his own recovering to do.

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