I am sure there are many of you out there that have been through the surgery and had families. I have been trying to do little things here and there as I prepare for my upcoming surgery date but I would love some ideas on how I can best keep up with my family as well.

My son is only 19 months and still sleep in his crib, so lifting him up for naps during the day and being able to get down on the floor and play with him, etc.

Another on of my biggest concerns are keeping up with making meals for my family (obviously they are not on the liquid/puree diet).

really any advice on this would be great. My husband has been a huge support for me and I want to make sure that I am doing my best to make him feel loved.

thanks everyone!

Yo shouldn't be lifting him right after surgery, and getting down on the floor might be difficul for a week or so

Hi Amanda,

This wasn't an issue for me, but I've seen others here talk about it. Basically, you'll probably want to lower his crib mattress to the lowest possible level, and teach him to climb in and out with the side lowered. Start now so that it's a habit when surgery rolls around.

I know other people also teach their toddlers to climb in and out of their car seats rather than being lifted in and out of the car.

You'll probably need to brace yourself while you get up and down from the floor, and move very slowly, but it can be done.

Surgery is very tiring . . . if your husband can take charge of meals, or at least some meals, for a few weeks, I am sure that would be a great help to you. If you can afford to hire someone to come in and clean for a couple of hours a day, watch the baby while you nap, and maybe fix a light supper for your family, that would also probably be a good option to explore.

Good luck!