So my ex and I have a Lot of love. What we realize is it takes two whole individuals for a healthy relationship not tWo halves. He and I are in no contact for a year while he works on himself through counseling etc...I'm of course am working on weight. When we meet up down the road we will be in a Healthier place. Sorry for jumping the gun On my other posts.

Lisa

Glad he is going for some counseling and hopefully some meds. Bi-polar is a horrible disorder for everyone involved but can be managed. I have a family full of it and have seen first hand how counseling and meds together can change lives. I wish you both good luck.

@@Mountaingal

Thank you so much! We both have the same Mental Illness which is odd because we didn't meet in a Behavioral Health setting we met random at a Community College. So I see it as fate.

Lisa

Best wishes to you both

Fate?

Good luck on changing your life if you think "fate" is in charge of your decisions.

I'm serious.

I don't Think that fate rules our life I just mean it was fate him and I met not knowing That we shared the same illness. Thank you!

Edited August 9, 201511 yr by limichelle34

both me and my hubby have bipolar as well as long as were both on our medications and see our docs regularly were fine if either one of us goes off the meds its a mess