I've noticed here lately that since losing a substantial amount of weight (90lbs) people (strangers) seem to be a lot more open and friendly. Nobody was ever mean to me before but now people go out of their way to strike up a conversation or hold doors ect.. little things like that. Then on the opposite end people I know seem to rather choke to death on a piece of glass than acknowledge the huge change I've made. Not all people just a few. It's not that I need acknowledgment or anything, I did this for myself but any time I notice a change like that in a person I say something! I'm kinda a big mouth too though. It seems women have a harder time complimenting other women for some reason. I wonder why that is? It doesn't take anything away from you to compliment another woman. Anyway just an observation.

This is definitely an amazing journey. For so long I just wanted to be at the end of it, but now I am enjoying the process so much (except for the mayonnaise incident last Thursday) that I don't want it to end. Which is good, but it won't!!

As for bat wings -- my trainer said mine will go away as weight comes off, but he has me doing some extra arm work now too. He even noticed I'm getting a "biceps line"!!!

Most of the people I'm around today - didn't know me before I had my first surgery for the lapband 8 years ago - so they still see me as being overweight. Those like my family, and the friends I had in PA before moving to Texas really notice it and comment on it. They are all supportive - those that I've made down here though, just kinda go - oh you're going to the gym... have you lost any weight? and when I tell them they just nod their heads and go well I'm sure if you work harder you'll lose more. Makes me miss my friends up north more

Hot Damn you look great! I love the Bob cut on you... I plan on cutting to a bob also if I get an issue with thinning (fingers crossed, none yet)

I have been fat and thin both. I lost to under 150 lbs with the band, and I definitely got the attention you mention. Door held, strangers in the store striking up a conversation, etc... I attribute some of that to weight, but I think the way you carry yourself after losing that weight also has a lot to do with it. That new confidence boost puts a brighter sparkle in your eye, an easier smile, and a little extra pep in your step. People naturally respond to this!

@@LisaPunkinHead I'm glad you are enjoying it! I must have missed the mayo incident?! My husband is bringing me home the Bowflex Blaze tonight so we shall see how that thing goes. I'd love to get my arms in shape on my own and save the money!

True all true! I'm loving the BOB thank you!

@ Well those bastards!! - I finished a nursing contract in PA last year. It's a Lovely place!

Elode you look amazing!!

And it's very strange that some people in your life wouldn't acknowledge your weight loss success? It's like they aren't happy for you or that they wanted you to remain big (for whatever reason).

@@wheezysmom First, Thank you! I don't know? Why would anyone want someone to stay big and unhealthy?! People are strange creatures.