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Fear of Failure

I fear that I will fail with the sleeve. I'm 1week post-op and has lost 28lbs already but I fear failure because I'm able to drink all my liquids and don't really feel any real restrictions. Can someone comment on my concern.

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  • You probably won't feel restriction with water, you may have to wait until your eating food with some density. It's a little (lot) to early to be worrying about failure. Be thankful you can get all yo

  • Good for you....be glad you can get in all your liquids. It's a a wonderful "problem" to have. I could, too. Like Elode said, you will not feel the restriction until you are on solids. I watched th

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    I felt like my sleeve was too big when I started on post-op liquids. I was able to drink 64oz a day by the 4th day after surgery. So I thought maybe my sleeve was too big. Until I started on purees. O

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You probably won't feel restriction with water, you may have to wait until your eating food with some density. It's a little (lot) to early to be worrying about failure. Be thankful you can get all your fluids in, a lot of people have issues with fluids early on. Relax! :)

Good for you....be glad you can get in all your liquids. It's a a wonderful "problem" to have. I could, too. Like Elode said, you will not feel the restriction until you are on solids. I watched the barium liquid flow right through my sleeve into my intestines within seconds when they did my fluoroscopy leak test, so it doesn't stick around long enough to give a full sensation. Seriously, just relax, be grateful you feel so good and enjoy the journey! You lost 28 pounds for schit's sake...took me almost 3 months to do that.

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I fear that I will fail with the sleeve. I'm 1week post-op and has lost 28lbs already but I fear failure because I'm able to drink all my liquids and don't really feel any real restrictions. Can someone comment on my concern.

I felt like my sleeve was too big when I started on post-op liquids. I was able to drink 64oz a day by the 4th day after surgery. So I thought maybe my sleeve was too big. Until I started on purees. Once you go to purees, you will feel the restriction. And once you return to solids you will feel it even more.

I think the fear of failure is a healthy fear. It shows commitment.

Your confidence in your ability to success will grow very quickly as you start passing milestones...both scale and non-scale victories.

Best of luck on your journey!

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I felt like my sleeve was too big when I started on post-op liquids. I was able to drink 64oz a day by the 4th day after surgery. So I thought maybe my sleeve was too big. Until I started on purees. Once you go to purees, you will feel the restriction. And once you return to solids you will feel it even more.

I think the fear of failure is a healthy fear. It shows commitment.

Your confidence in your ability to success will grow very quickly as you start passing milestones...both scale and non-scale victories.

Best of luck on your journey!

So did u drop weight fast?

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