Does anyone else have some sort of anxiety over this? I am so happy that I'm doing it. But then I ask myself, did I really do everything I could before going forward with surgery? I know I did, but why am I questioning myself over and over again!?

Because it's a huge life decision. If you have come this far you have throught through it all, You can do this, it IS so worth it.

I think most people do that, it's fear of the unknown. Try not to stress and have confidence in yourself that your making the right decision.

Do some meditation on positive thoughts and your life one year from now. Use all that energy and put it to good use. Not sleeping will only make things worse. Take a nice, long hot bath and pamper yourself. Give yourself all the good things you deserve. You will be just fine

Everyday I ask myself this question and I come to the same answer. Yes I did everything I could. I went through all the right steps and didn't see the results I need to continue so this is the right step. You should question yourself time to time on things of this nature it is only nature and think about it is surgery its life changing not something to be taken so lightly. I know this is the right thing for me and if you have come to this point then I'm sure it is the right thing for you! Good luck in your journey and I wish you all the success you deserve!

I had kind of a meltdown a few days before my surgery, even though I had been looking forward to it for over a year, planning for it, taking care of all of the insurance requirements, and attending support group meetings every month. Strangely enough, my biggest fear was how I would deal with the liquid diet that seems to go on forever, and not being able to use food to soothe myself. Now that I am 18 days postop, I realize that the liquid diet is a real challenge for me (though some sail through it just fine), but having my weight drop has boosted my mood so much that I've stopped caring about it. You got some good advice above - take time to think and remember and visualize all the reasons you chose this path, get a massage and a manicure, or do some things that help you slow down and feel more peaceful - they really help.

Thanks so much! You're right, its just the nerves driving me nuts. @@Momof2inIowa

Thanks so much @@Elode How are you feeling 1 month post up?

@@bobbyswife you're completely right. I will definitely get some more meditation and breathing exercises in.

@@Veronica Page Thanks so much! I also did everything I could. I know deep down in my heart I did. I really appreciate your wishes for me and wish you all that and more back! How is everything going for you post op?

You're all so sweet Thank you all so much!

@@Lorammy I am getting a mani and pedi this weekend, clear nail polish, doctors orders . Thank you so much for all the advice, I really appreciate it.

@@FpJackelyn I'm doing great! Just moving right along, thanks for asking.