So I had the Sleeve on Jan 9th this year, had do have Gallbladder Removal on Feb 1st this year, had nothing but problems. I NOW have Bile Reflux, so Doctor has me to have the Bypass on NOV 21 this year, Yes that is Thursday. Husband is PISSED, he went off last night saying all the health issues are my fault, and I choose to have the sleeve to loose weight, and now I have <edited> up the family's life for a year now they Have to wait and have me Recover from YET another SURGERY......I feel so Sad and Alone, NO support, and starting to feel like it is My fault I was Fat I chose to eat no one ever put a gun to my head and MADE me GET FAT......ugh so depressed,...

So sorry your husband said those thing to you. It is probably just the stress of everything you have been through. He was probably just letting off frustration eventhough there is no excuse for it.

I too have the same issues. Although, I don't think they are as severe as yours as of yet. I've posted about this and how scared I am that I may too be facing gastric bypass. I had my sleeve surgery 5/21/12 then gall bladder surgery in March of 2013. I have also been diagnosed with bile reflux and gastritis. Also the worse diagnosis is esophageal spasms. UGH.. so painful. My surgeon mentioned the bypass to me and I told him no. Not yet. I will see how things are. Unlike your conditions, I can still keep food down. You are underweight I see and you really have to do this so you can get nutrition in.

I'm praying for you. I hope all all is well for you on Thursday. Please keep us informed on how you are doing.

Good luck and God bless you!

She used the F-word. If you take the time to read carefully, you will see that it has since been deleted by a moderator. That word is not considered acceptable to many people. My request was perfectly reasonable.

It seems the same 4 or 5 members of that little high school clique that were following me around are at it again, wagging their finger at me.

Get off my case. Take a hike and burn some calories, girls!

I'm sorry; but, it's funny how no one noticed the deleted word until you pointed it out. It's funny how THAT is what you noticed.

Oops!

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Op..I hope you get the support you need. You have come to a pretty good place. This journey is hard enough without having a solid support system at home. Hopefully you can get some of the support u need here. Prayers that things get better for u.

Did you even have his support when you had the first surgery? If so, there is obviously a deeply rooted problem and he just doesn't know how to express his feelings or concerns. Men are pretty good at hiding that stuff and when it does come out it often comes out as anger first. If you didn't have his support in the beginning, well then, its time to focus on you, lose the weight, strut your sexy ass in front of him and show him what he'll be missing for not being supportive!!!

Goldy, jokes aside I know the stress, pain and confusion has been tremendous for you these last couple of months...

As a husband I think he feels scared and helpless in this, that is not always a comfortable feeling for our spouses to sit with.. Did his worry come out in an articulate loving way? No...

But he's human like the rest of us, and I have hopes that by the time you go in this week he will be right there, back by your side

I'm sorry; but, it's funny how no one noticed the deleted word until you pointed it out. It's funny how THAT is what you noticed.

I noticed it right away myself.

I am dealing with life and death things here and NO Support!!!! SMH

She used the F-word. If you take the time to read carefully, you will see that it has since been deleted by a moderator. That word is not considered acceptable to many people. My request was perfectly reasonable.

It seems the same 4 or 5 members of that little high school clique that were following me around are at it again, wagging their finger at me.

Get off my case. Take a hike and burn some calories, girls!

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I noticed it right away myself.

I noticed it right away myself.

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Abusive and against forum rules

She used the F-word. If you take the time to read carefully, you will see that it has since been deleted by a moderator. That word is not considered acceptable to many people. My request was perfectly reasonable.

It seems the same 4 or 5 members of that little high school clique that were following me around are at it again, wagging their finger at me.

Get off my case. Take a hike and burn some calories, girls!

Really?? You are not here to support people you are only here to criticize people. I don't know why the moderators are even letting you stay on here. And your talking high school clique and fingers but all you do is point your finger at others. I think the only one who needs to grow up is YOU. Get a damn life! Yeah I said damn. Now point you wrinkled up finger at me. As much as you type on here I think you are the one who needs to take a hike and burn some of your mean calories!!

Sorry for your situation, but please clean up your language. We don't need that here.

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Against forum rules.

Lol

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Against forum rules. No need to repeat.

Don't mind her something is extremely wrong with her. It's ok to post how you feel even if you cuss every now and then. It's sad you need our support and she just wanted to chastise you. I hope everything works out and you get the support you need! Us real supporters will be here if you need us!

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Really?? You are not here to support people you are only here to criticize people. I don't know why the moderators are even letting you stay on here. And your talking high school clique and fingers but all you do is point your finger at others. I think the only one who needs to grow up is YOU. Get a damn life! Yeah I said damn. Now point you wrinkled up finger at me. As much as you type on here I think you are the one who needs to take a hike and burn some of your mean calories!!

Lol