So, unfortunately, today I got to experience something that brought up past feelings of how people made me feel in school... Only this time it's BECAUSE of my weight loss. I got my new license today and took a side by side pic of my old vs. my new. I thought it was funny how different my face looked. Well, after posting it on Facebook, an old friend of mine made a very rude comment that actually sent me in to tears at work. I'm not easily shaken, but this really hurt. It taught me an important lesson though... Fat, skinny, black, white, tall, or short... People are people and will always find something to say about you. I just feel badly that he had to be so mean... I'm pretty down this afternoon because of him.

In my head it's a beautiful and charming accent! Right up there with the Aussies!

In my head it's a beautiful and charming accent! Right up there with the Aussies!

thats exactly how I hear it...somewhat Mary Poppins

HW 312, pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 198

This guy is just a hateful person and can see how wonderful you look. I am glad you unfriended him on facebook he will get the message because I am sure he tried looking you up again since he left that message. He is jealous that you have taken care of yourself and has a need to make you feel bad so he can feel good about himself. He knows he is a loser, I know he is a loser and anyone who saw that posting knows he is a loser as a human. You are the WINNER not him. I hate people like that.

thats exactly how I hear it...somewhat Mary Poppins

HW 312' date=' pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 198[/quote']

Ellen Degeneres had 2 English young girls on her show today with awesome accents. That is how I think she sou ds!

I'm afraid to type now because I am a lazy typer, and leave out many letters and apostrophe's...hehehe....I made sure to ad them to this post...!! :unsure:

What a jerk! Cut the haters out of your life and keep on celebrating success - that is a good thing.

Ugh .. It's been a terribly stressful day. I had a huge disappointment at work today then this asshole was the icing on my cake. I'm so embarrassed to admit this, but I returned to my old friend and binged tonight. Now I feel even worse.. 4 inches of a turkey subway sub, 6 Hershey kisses, and 1/2 cup of milk. I have no clue where it all went. Ugh... Just ready for bed.

Ugh .. It's been a terribly stressful day. I had a huge disappointment at work today then this asshole was the icing on my cake. I'm so embarrassed to admit this' date=' but I returned to my old friend and binged tonight. Now I feel even worse.. 4 inches of a turkey subway sub, 6 Hershey kisses, and 1/2 cup of milk. I have no clue where it all went. Ugh... Just ready for bed.[/quote']

Aww sweetie I feel so badly for you. Don't beat yourself up. You've worked too hard to let this jerk cause you to spin out. In the immortal words of Scarlett Ohara "tomorrow is another day". Feel better!!!

Only response to that nonsense comment? "It's you're, not 'your'."

:-)

so is it just me or do y'all read her posts with an accent In your head??? HW 312' date=' pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 198[/quote'] naturally!

Glad you deleted him. But I'd change my profile pic to the following, in case he goes looking for you or sees your posts to mutual friends.

Sorry that happened!

Hateraide is always so bitter, I like sweet You deserve sweetness except in your food LOL smile and keep it moving.