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Main Entry: en·abler

Pronunciation: \i-ˈnā-blər, -bəl-ər\

Function: noun Date: 1615:

one that enables another to achieve an end ; especially : one who enables another to persist in self-destructive behavior (as substance abuse) by providing excuses or by making it possible to avoid the consequences of such behavior

food ADDICTION

Food addiction manifests itself in the uncontrollable craving for excess food that follows the ingestion of refined carbohydrates, primarily sugar and flour substances that are quickly metabolized and turned into sugar in the bloodstream.

Due to those uncontrollable cravings, a food addict's quality of life deteriorates when he or she eats sugar, flour or wheat. It can deteriorate physically, emotionally, socially and/or spiritually.

If any of the following symptoms are familiar to you, you may be a food addict:

Physical Symptoms of Food Addiction

• Do you think you cannot control your intake of food, especially junk food or high sugar foods?

• Have you tried different diets or weight loss programs, but none has worked permanently?

• Have you found yourself vomiting, using laxatives, diuretics, or exercising a lot to avoid a weight gain after you have eaten a lot?

Many food addicts are obese and have tried numerous methods for weight control (diets, drugs, surgery, etc.) yet nothing has created a permanent solution. Other food addicts have never been obese. Their physical weight has been controlled by extreme measures such as excessive exercise, purging through vomiting or laxatives (bulimia), or the severe and unhealthy limiting of food substances(anorexia). No matter which version of food addiction fits you, all of these symptoms become more severe with time and eventually lead to physical problems that can create an early and sometimes painful death.

Emotional Symptoms of Food Addiction

• Do you find yourself feeling depressed, hopeless, sad or ashamed about your eating or your weight?

• Do you find yourself eating when you are upset or reward yourself with food when you do something good?

• Have you ever noticed after eating sugar, flour, or wheat that you become more irritable?

Food addicts notice that their emotions become more severe, intense, or unreasonable when eating the addictive substances. For many food addicts, emotional life may deteriorate into despair, depression, or thoughts of suicide.

Social Symptoms of Food Addiction

• Do you eat in private so no one will see you?

• Do you avoid social interactions because you feel you do not look good enough or do not have the proper fitting clothes to wear?

• Do you steal other people’s food?

• Are you more interested in what food is served at social gatherings than looking forward to the warmth of being with the people attending?

A food addict’s social life is affected by intense obsessive thinking about food. Making eye contact with people and taking an interest in developing friendships or intimate relationships become secondary to locating and eating addictive foods. Food addicts often hide or steal foods and eat in secret.

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    What a great thread Laura. Yes, this place is a hot bed of enabling. All the "I ate a snickers bar one week post op and I don't feel bad about it....." Yeah, those people see that as a victory ov

  • AmandaRaeLeo
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    May I be so bold to suggest that those who justify and seek permission/absolution with regards to their drug of choice are the same ones who thought WLS was a cure? That the sleeve would do the fighti

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    You're right. Depending on what support you're looking for this site can be either good or bad for us. For me, I need the slap in the face, tear me apart reality that slipping up is not an option.

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My daughter is sitting here (because I asked her about those other books that GG mentioned) raving about a book called The Fault In Our Stars by John Green. I agree that teen fiction is a million times better than what was available when I was a kid. I pretty much didn't bother with reading books that I was a target audience for, instead I read Stephen King and Dean Koontz. Now I'm just as quick to read one of my daughter's books as I am one of my own!

Oh I be been wanting to read that. I just wondered if it was a total tear jerker.

If your daughter liked Veronica Roth, she might enjoy the Wool series. Again sci fi and very well done. Another book my son loved was The art of racing in the rain. So did my husband and I. Especially if she likes dogs.

She said it made her cry! I haven't read it and of course she took it back to the school library before I could read it. I'll have to see if I can get it on my kindle through the local library.

I will have to look for the Wool Series books, maybe I can start her on them for Christmas. Would be so much easier if the girl liked e-readers but she insists she likes reading real books. Teenagers....

Oh I be been wanting to read that. I just wondered if it was a total tear jerker.

If your daughter liked Veronica Roth, she might enjoy the Wool series. Again sci fi and very well done. Another book my son loved was The art of racing in the rain. So did my husband and I. Especially if she likes dogs.

ROFLMAO!!! That is hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh I be been wanting to read that. I just wondered if it was a total tear jerker.

If your daughter liked Veronica Roth, she might enjoy the Wool series. Again sci fi and very well done. Another book my son loved was The art of racing in the rain. So did my husband and I. Especially if she likes dogs.

Highly recommend Art of racing in the rain and a Dogs purpose. Both two great dog books from the dogs perspective.

Highly recommend Art of racing in the rain and a Dogs purpose. Both two great dog books from the dogs perspective.

Yea! That was the other one, a dogs purpose.

She said it made her cry! I haven't read it and of course she took it back to the school library before I could read it. I'll have to see if I can get it on my kindle through the local library. I will have to look for the Wool Series books, maybe I can start her on them for Christmas. Would be so much easier if the girl liked e-readers but she insists she likes reading real books. Teenagers....

Is she too old for Rick Riordan? Alex loves those

I've read about 14 David Baldacci in a row, but I think I've had enough now. I love my Kindle - can download books any time! I've bought one for my DIL for Christmas too. Keep the recommendations coming! Don't know if I'll want to read "young adult" fiction though.

She's 14, and I haven't read them so don't know if that's too old or not but she has them all and loves them!

Another series she likes is the Maximum Ride books by James Patterson, and he also has another series called Witch & Wizard that she likes a lot.

Is she too old for Rick Riordan? Alex loves those

My 15 yo boy loves Michael Grant's "Gone" series - v scifi and a bit violent but in a Hunger Games kind of way. He asked his Dad and I to read them and we both have - great characters. He's written a new series, titled something like Bzkr (short version of Berzerker, I think). Tom has just read the first book of that and was right into it. Anything that gets a boy reading is a bonus IMO.

I think this thread really does have something for everyone. Wow.

And the Rohan of Rin and Deltora Quest books are fabulous for around the 12/13 year age group - good, strong girl character in DQ and strong, sensitive boys in both. By Aussie Emily Rodda.

My 15 yo boy loves Michael Grant's "Gone" series - v scifi and a bit violent but in a Hunger Games kind of way. He asked his Dad and I to read them and we both have - great characters. He's written a new series, titled something like Bzkr (short version of Berzerker, I think). Tom has just read the first book of that and was right into it. Anything that gets a boy reading is a bonus IMO. I think this thread really does have something for everyone. Wow.

Thanks so much for the reccos. It's time to get him into another series so very helpful.

Although Alex didn't like it, my older one loved Artemis fowl and we all loved the entire Ender series. Those are very well conceived we well, by Olson Scott card. Separately I've actually enjoyed card's women of the bible series, and I'm not traditionally religious.

since the subject of books came up, has anyone read the book thief? I will be picking that up or maybe the divergent series for my time off for my surgery.

Reading it now. It's written as a narrative in a sort of peculiar format, and I'm honestly struggling to decide if I love it or hate it. I'm about 300 pages in -- far enough in that I can't drop the characters, and far enough in that I have to know how it all pans out, peculiar formatting or no. I think it has the potential to come together nicely.

Oh I be been wanting to read that. I just wondered if it was a total tear jerker. If your daughter liked Veronica Roth, she might enjoy the Wool series. Again sci fi and very well done. Another book my son loved was The art of racing in the rain. So did my husband and I. Especially if she likes dogs.

The Wool series is great!

I'm in trashy fiction mode and reading the Sookie Stackhouse books that the TV series True Blood is based on. I haven't seen the tv shows. I actually read constantly and have read almost 70 books in 2013. A lot of them this year were about weight loss surgery and the sleeve and nutrition.

On my list for next year is to finally read the Game of Thrones books and the Wheel of Time books.

So......I know there's alot of ladies on this thread. Do you all want to see Catching Fire as badly as my wife does? She seems obsessed.

Yeah I took a group of teens and tweens on opening night.

The movie was excellent.

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