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Ladies HELP!

OK, freak out mode full on. Hanging out with a guy tomorrow night (first date in seriously 2+ years). I wasn't going to allow myself to date (so messed up) until I hit 205 (I'm 233 as of this AM), but I really want to see him so I just folded. We casually dated briefly about 3 years ago. I was about 20 pounds lighter then, but trying super, super hard not to focus on that (AKA I'm obsessing over it). Need some feedback on this dress from anyone and everyone. Going to wear a cardigan of some sort over it. Thoughts?

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  • wow! Gorgeous! Whatever sweater you wear, try not to hide your curves that the dress highlights. So shrug or lightweight cardi, not like, you know sweater. With the curves and the hint of cleavage, I

  • First off, try and not stress over the date. He is just a man, and trust me, men are far more stress than not. haha. I could easily tell you not to worry, that your beautiful, you should feel happy wi

  • OK, I can do this! Thank you all for the encouragement! Why does my mind always go here? Light sweater, bracelet, statement necklace and good attitude. I'll let you guys know how it goes :) tha

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WOW! That dress shows off your waist....as everyone else said, don't cover up your pretty figure!

Enjoy your date.....and yes, we want a report!

your "smoking" Great Curves, the "girls" "boobs" are looking good, don't hide them with a sweater unless it is Cold, then when inside take it off.....Work it girl!!!!

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You all are the best, thank you everyone for your encouraging and amazing replies! So happy I found this site :)

Have a great weekend everyone!

You all are the best, thank you everyone for your encouraging and amazing replies! So happy I found this site :)

Have a great weekend everyone!

Have a great weekend?? What do you mean have a great weekend? Did you forget you owe us a report tonight or tomorrow after the date?? :P

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LOLOLOL yes, of course! I will give a play-by-play tomorrow AM!

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OK, so the date went well! It wasn't knock my socks off amazing, but I would give it a 6.5-7. He actually is a lot funnier on the phone and in text. Maybe it was just because we hadn't seen each other in a while and it was a little awkward? Who knows? Anyways, the more important part is I felt great walking in there! I have quite a ways to go with my weight loss, but already feeling good at only about half way to my goal is more than I could have ever asked for.

Thank you all again for your words of encouragement! Have a great rest of the weekend!

OK' date=' so the date went well! It wasn't knock my socks off amazing, but I would give it a 6.5-7. He actually is a lot funnier on the phone and in text. Maybe it was just because we hadn't seen each other in a while and it was a little awkward? Who knows? Anyways, the more important part is I felt great walking in there! I have quite a ways to go with my weight loss, but already feeling good at only about half way to my goal is more than I could have ever asked for. Thank you all again for your words of encouragement! Have a great rest of the weekend![/quote']

Glad you had a good time. The dress looks fantastic on you. Way to own it!

Looking good!

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