So, I live in a college town where a lot of my friends go home during the summer. So, I haven't seen a lot of my friends since right after my surgery, a lot of them left in may, my surgery was April 25th. They are coming back next week and I'm super nervous about how they are going to react.

My specific worry is this guy, who I was sort of dating before my surgery and the summer. He wants to meet up with me tomorrow, and I'm really self conscious about seeing him again. It's super awful that I've lost 103lbs and I'm still uncomfortable with myself.

Sorry for the mini-rant.

So' date=' I live in a college town where a lot of my friends go home during the summer. So, I haven't seen a lot of my friends since right after my surgery, a lot of them left in may, my surgery was April 25th. They are coming back next week and I'm super nervous about how they are going to react.

My specific worry is this guy, who I was sort of dating before my surgery and the summer. He wants to meet up with me tomorrow, and I'm really self conscious about seeing him again. It's super awful that I've lost 103lbs and I'm still uncomfortable with myself.

Sorry for the mini-rant.[/quote']

I've been keeping to myself for awhile know can't wait to have my surgery and bump into some old friends go meet him enjoy your new look

Mz Shay

So' date=' I live in a college town where a lot of my friends go home during the summer. So, I haven't seen a lot of my friends since right after my surgery, a lot of them left in may, my surgery was April 25th. They are coming back next week and I'm super nervous about how they are going to react.

My specific worry is this guy, who I was sort of dating before my surgery and the summer. He wants to meet up with me tomorrow, and I'm really self conscious about seeing him again. It's super awful that I've lost 103lbs and I'm still uncomfortable with myself.

Sorry for the mini-rant.[/quote']

I't's "super awful" that you've lost 103lbs?!!!! It's super AWESOME! If this guy cares about you he'll be happy for you! If not, there are a whole lot more fish in the sea.

That's right if he is not into the new you it's time to find another catch.

I't's "super awful" that you've lost 103lbs?!!!! It's super AWESOME! If this guy cares about you he'll be happy for you! If not' date=' there are a whole lot more fish in the sea.[/quote']

It isnt super awful that I have lost. It is super awful that I cant tell. I have fat girl goggles on

That will go away in time. You need to look at yourself in the mirror more to get used to seeing yourself as you are now.

I do understand what you mean. We're changing so fast our minds can't keep up. Thursday I was going through my jeans looking for something to wear for dress down at work. I pulled out some things that were to small for me a while back and I looked at them and thought 'no way are these going to fit'. And they did! Not only that, but some were even too big! I can't judge my size anymore! It's a good thing... :-)

Every thing went well. He couldn believe how much I changed. Lol thanks ladies

I't's "super awful" that you've lost 103lbs?!!!! It's super AWESOME! If this guy cares about you he'll be happy for you! If not' date=' there are a whole lot more fish in the sea.[/quote']

AMEN!