So im 2 years post op I had my surgery when I was 20! I lost 130 pounds and love it but the real issue lies in the boy problems I cant seem to find the confidence to put myself out there!! A year after my surgery I got in 2 horrible relationships were they cheated on me and in my head it automatically went too o it must be my weight! Any tips ladies? O and how the hell do I put a profile pic on this thing haha

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Hi Mia, I want to say for one you are gorgeous! And 2 guys are tough! Confidence helps but ultimately only you can change how you feel and you will def attract the right person. I'm sorry that happened to you. I would be the first one to think it was due to something I had done too or my weight. But if you look back on them were their warning signs you ignored? Hindsight is usually always 20/20. Just keep pushing forward, he's out there.

And congrats on your loss! =]

Awww thank you warning signs one was in the navy Lol and the other one always talked about the,fact that I would leave him if I kept losing weight but he always made excuses!! Thank u for the advice!

Congrats on the weight lost. You will find the right guy. Your a hot woman. Men are jerks(most)