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Nervous :/

Submitted application to insurance today. Hoping and praying for approval. I have bcbs and I've been researching, seeing a lot of people that have the same I insurance and got approved :) only there's another issue..... my husband does nit want me to have the surgery so besides my bestfriend who is supportive I'm kinda on my own. I don't want this to ruin my marriage though. Any advice? Thanks in advance :)

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  • I suggest counseling now. I know it sounds drastic but it's worth it. Also, have you taken him with you to your appointments? Sometimes that helps lessen their fears. Good luck!!

  • Omg I'm in the same boat. I am waiting to get s call back for approval. I have bcbs my husband just told me he's against this and the only other person who knows is my best friend. I feel nervous too

  • Insurance approved and will cover all cost only thing I been is a 6 month medically supervised diet. Sweet but sour at the same time. I was hoping I wouldn't have a long wait but. Its worth it. I'm

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Omg I'm in the same boat. I am waiting to get s call back for approval. I have bcbs my husband just told me he's against this and the only other person who knows is my best friend. I feel nervous too

The last thing I want is to ruin my marriage. I love him so much. I think he is scared of me being skinny again. But I was with him. I love him. I need this for health and so I can be alive for him and our kids.

I suggest counseling now. I know it sounds drastic but it's worth it. Also, have you taken him with you to your appointments? Sometimes that helps lessen their fears. Good luck!!

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Insurance approved and will cover all cost :) only thing I been is a 6 month medically supervised diet. Sweet but sour at the same time. I was hoping I wouldn't have a long wait but. Its worth it. I'm not good at waiting. Hopefully time flies :)

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Talked to hubby today. After a tearful conversation. I have his support :) I'm do happy and relieved

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