Hey everyone, I am new to this site but, I really like it already.I am almost 16 months post opt and within pounds of my goal. I really feel great about myself and how far I have come. With that said, I must be honest....... I feel sexier and could really use some attention to feel vindicated. Its like its not real if no one seems to notice. When I say that I mean men....Of course people in my life have noticed and lots of things have changed.... all except this. Men NEVER flirt or come on to me Its sad. I know that I must make myself feel good and not depend on outsiders to make me feel valued/good/better/whole that's my job but, it would still be great to get noticed too. Does anyone else feel this way? Have others noticed more attention from men? Do you seek it out? What can I do to change this? Can't wait to hear from you all

Make yourself open to it. Smile at men...don't wear a "don't touch" sign...

Yes! Seek it... Flirt first if you have too when guys get the green light they will reciprocate the flirting and attention!

all the luck girly we all love to feel sexy and get it confirmed

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You are so close to your goal I am sure you can taste it, you have done a awesome job so far. Start flirting, smile, be approachable, sometimes men are afraid to approach pretty women because they do not want to get turned down.... so send out the signals that you are intrested and approachable.

Thanks everyone...That is what I will do....Smile more and hope that people feel that I am approachable. It will feel great when I get some outside confirmation that things really have changed as much as I thought...

Say good morning/afternoon/evening... Smile & you will get sell these hungry men after you. You will then post how do I tell the men stop flirting with me lmbo I love attention as well.