Im starting a thread on things you cant wait to do/accomplish after surgery..

I can't wait...

• for that moment where I don't have to use a beach towel after a shower!
  
• till I can ride my bike with my daughter without my tire going flat the moment I hop on the bike!
  
• to give my daughters a bath with out running out of breath!
  
• till I can take my boyfriend out on a date to his favorite place Six Flags without being in fear that the security lock on the roller coaster wont fit me or I wont fit in the seat period!
  
• till I can play hide n seek with my daughter and be able to run without feeling like I'm about to collapse!
  
• till food is no longer something I seek for comfort yet only for necesity because my body needs nutrients not because my emotions need to be fed!
  

To taking a long hot bubble bath again!!

To being able to tie my shoes in the middle instead of the side!!

Run & Play with grandbabies til I wear them out!!

To not having daily pain and discomfort!!

To finally be healthy and vibrant again!!

I want my outside and inside to match. I am an outgoing, happy go lucky person and I want my confidence back. I want my hell raiser back, I want me back. I don't know who this fat, anxiety ridden woman is but I don't like her. I want to be able to go do stuff without having to pre-plan everything and make sure its fat girl friendly.

Oh and I want to fit in a seat belt in my mother in laws car because her stupid Buick seems to think that if you're bigger than roughly a size 20, then you should stay home or take your chances being thrown around in an accident.

I can't wait until my surgery!!!!! (February 28th)

I can't wait until my surgery!!!!! (February 28th)

I know what you mean.... I can't wait either and mine isn't until April 8th......

I can't wait to be able to .....

buy a bra that fits, is sexy and not gonna break the bank!!

( Larger size bras are NOT that pretty! Just watch Double Divas and you will see! LOL)

Updated List:

Things I can't wait for and inspire/motivate me to keep going:

- Use a regular bath towel and not a beach towel because nothing else will cover my body.

- use high heels with out fear of falling over!(TIMMMMBER! LOL)

- I can take my daughter to Disneyland without fearing that I won't fit in the rides.

- Take my hubby on a date to Six Flags... he loves that place but I never want to go for the same reason as Disneyland.

- I want to run/walk a marathon!

- I can run or walk fast with out feeling like im going to die!

- Buy cute bras that wont break the bank! I used to LOVE Lane Bryant and now I HATE THEM! LOL so expensive!

- Buy clothes anywhere! not just specialty plus size stores!

- Be that girl that when I walk by people think: Wow look how great she looks!

- Be able to try different activities in the bedroom and surprise my hubby!

- be so fit that working out is a hobby and not a necesity!

-look @ my feel when I look down.

- Cross my legs!

- Paint my toe nails with out being in a awkard position so I can reach my toes!

- Be able to soak in a bath! soak meaning I fit in the tub and actually have the Water cover my body!

- Go to the movies and be able to sit comfortably in the chair with out rubbing up agains the person next to me!

For the most part I want to be an example to my daughters!!! For a healthy lifestyle!

I can't wait to get married and have babies.

Just be happy!

I've read this thread a lot so here. Is my wish list:

- sit on the floor with my daughter and play instead of her saying' date=' daddy and I will play on the floor you sit on the bed mommy.

- ride on a roller coaster with my daughter. 2 amusement parks and never a ride with her.

- wear jeans (haven't worn jeans in almost 3 years)

- care about myself and how I look. I always wear sweats and slippers bc I'm so fat I just don't care.

- run a mile

- do a marathon

- teach my daughter proper eatin habits.

- shop in a normal store!!

- share clothes with someone, anyone!

Not to mention everything everyone else said too!![/quote']

Ok. Thought I would see what I have accomplished so far. I am 6.5 weeks post op. down 30lbs since surgery (more now) 67lbs total since I started process in October.

I now sit on the floor and play and lie on the floor and color. I still choose the couch or bed... Because my floor is tile. But on carpet I choose the floor because I can!!

No amusement park rides yet, but we went to the zoo and I walked! I didn't get or need a wheel chair.

I own jeans now!!!

And I share clothes with other ppl in my support group. I can share some of my husbands shirts!!!

No mile run, but I walk 3 miles and run for a minute or 2!

Marathon, I'm looking into my first 5k in a month or so.

Teaching proper eating, not yet. I seem to e feedin her more crap since I barely eat or cook. Working on it!

I can shop at Walmart and target now. Which to me is a normal store!! I also buy clothes at goodwil now which I never could before.

As for caring how I look. I am realizing its a hard process. I still choose huge baggy clothes and slippers over anything else. But I like to wear a bra now bc it doesn't hurt. And I think about what I choose to wear an I actually can wear nice clothes when I want too!

I have accomplished a lot on this list. Makes me feel awesome.

I can't wait to be able to walk the mall without my back hurting

Cross my legs

Shop out of a regular store

Play with my 6 year old at the play ground

Wear cute lil summer dresses.

Wear high heels again

Look cute in a bathing suit

I can't wait to wear clothes I like.

I can't wait to be back to a size 7\8 or at least a 9/10.

I can't wait to find going shopping (for clothing) enjoyable again.

I can't wait until I can look into the mirror and like the way I look again.

I can't wait to feel lighter, more flexible and have more stamina.

I can't wait to be able to travel more With my daughter.

I can't wait to be complimented on my new body.

I can't wait for long walks again and exercise!

I can't wait to feel confident in a bathing suit.

I can't wait to feel healthier.

I can't wait to not live my life worrying if I will die young as a result of obesity or being overweight.

I can't wait to teach my daughter and set the example for my new healthy lifestyle.