I know in one of our other threads everyone was talking about their spouses. Anyone out there single? For me I look forward to meeting someone who will love and support me in my weight loss efforts. Wondering maybe a can find a sweet guy who maybe even had surgery himself.

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My aunt said to me when I was looking to do the surgery what I was going to do with all the male attention because she didn't want me to get addicted to sex instead of food (she wasn't being mean she's a therapist and helps Surgery patients so she sees it a lot.

Anyway I told her when and if I get that attention I'd let her know...just cause you slim down doesn't make you a hottie magnet....I guess we'll see.....

Onyx

Hey lady that's true. I'm staring to get hit on every so often. I'm not yet at my goal weight.

You know it's ashamed when the person that says they love you and then while you loosing weight you find out that they are cheating on you. Well that's what happened to me, 18 years ended because he cheated. He said he thought that I would leave him after I lost the weight. How stupid is he. Now he is regretting it. I went from a size 24 to a size 9. The best revenge is to look hot, sexy every time he comes around. I'm loving every minute of this. He looks like a lost puppy now. Lol

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You know it's ashamed when the person that says they love you and then while you loosing weight you find out that they are cheating on you. Well that's what happened to me, 18 years ended because he cheated. He said he thought that I would leave him after I lost the weight. How stupid is he. Now he is regretting it. I went from a size 24 to a size 9. The best revenge is to look hot, sexy every time he comes around. I'm loving every minute of this. He looks like a lost puppy now. Lol

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You know it's ashamed when the person that says they love you and then while you loosing weight you find out that they are cheating on you. Well that's what happened to me, 18 years ended because he cheated. He said he thought that I would leave him after I lost the weight. How stupid is he. Now he is regretting it. I went from a size 24 to a size 9. The best revenge is to look hot, sexy every time he comes around. I'm loving every minute of this. He looks like a lost puppy now. Lol.

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Thanks vamp. Guys probably freaked intimidated to flirt with you in person.

You know it's ashamed when the person that says they love you and then while you loosing weight you find out that they are cheating on you. Well that's what happened to me' date=' 18 years ended because he cheated. He said he thought that I would leave him after I lost the weight. How stupid is he. Now he is regretting it. I went from a size 24 to a size 9. The best revenge is to look hot, sexy every time he comes around. I'm loving every minute of this. He looks like a lost puppy now. Lol

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That's right. You know what? I dont understand if you lost weight & got all sexy why did he cheat? That bastard!!!

Thanks vamp. Guys probably freaked intimidated to flirt with you in person.

Haha well I always have my 3 kids with me so thats probably a turn off for them lol!

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Haha well I always have my 3 kids with me so thats probably a turn off for them lol!

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You have 3 kids? You want more?

Yea I really didn't have a choice the 1st pregnancy I had twins so I had 2 with one pregnancy, my 3rd was an oopsie we had trouble getting pregnant the 1st time around so we didn't think it would happen again, but when the twins were 13 months old I was pregnant again and had a miscarriage then got pregnant again when the twins were 14 months old with twins again but I lost one of the twins around the 6 week mark!

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Yea I really didn't have a choice the 1st pregnancy I had twins so I had 2 with one pregnancy' date=' my 3rd was an oopsie we had trouble getting pregnant the 1st time around so we didn't think it would happen again, but when the twins were 13 months old I was pregnant again and had a miscarriage then got pregnant again when the twins were 14 months old with twins again but I lost one of the twins around the 6 week mark!

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Oh ok my last pregnancy it was twin & at 3 months pregnant lost one. I didn't want more kids & I had my tubes tight. Now it's all about me. No pregnancies getting bigger or dealing with birthcontrol which I used once have a 15 year old & never used it again. God send me my kids I didn't look for it.

Hi Vamp,

Does twin genes normally run on your family?

Yeah twins run on both sides my hubby and mine! My generation is the generation for twins on my side, 2 of my cousins have twins also!

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Yeah twins run on both sides my hubby and mine! My generation is the generation for twins on my side' date=' 2 of my cousins have twins also!

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Twins run in my hunt side of the family but only 2 cousins something like that. Ibwouf had been the first to have twins from generations ago.

I haven't gotten anyone trying to flirt with me or anything since my surgery or even had anyone check me out for that matter! Idk y! Maybe I just don't pay attention to people checking me out or what not! But the guys here seem to all think I'm good looking lol!!!

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VERY GOOD LOOKING VAMP!!!

You know it's ashamed when the person that says they love you and then while you loosing weight you find out that they are cheating on you. Well that's what happened to me' date=' 18 years ended because he cheated. He said he thought that I would leave him after I lost the weight. How stupid is he. Now he is regretting it. I went from a size 24 to a size 9. The best revenge is to look hot, sexy every time he comes around. I'm loving every minute of this. He looks like a lost puppy now. Lol.

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Wow!!!! You look amazing.