Well as my surgery date approaches 8/15 i have yet to let anyone know that im going to be having gastric bypass. Of course my husband, and family knows. I haven't even posted it on Facebook. I just dont want people to judge me, or them think that im taking the " easy way out" because i know this is not the east way

home i actually think it might just be the hardest. The easy way is just not to do anything about this 320 lbs. I know im making the right decisionmaking and thats all that matters at this moment. I will tell everyone but just not now.

Is it weird that im not telling anyone, not even my friends?

Do when your ready girl!!!i am same as you I do t wish to deal with. Negative at this very moment in time!!! Once it's done say what you like be easier to deal with, this is all a hard enough choice as it is adding more stress is not needed!!! Here to support you!! X

Missy we have the same day the 22 it is comeing quick. I am with you idk what people say or think I have told everyone who asks me what I M doing its good to talk about it some people say oh why r u doing that u r not that big that makes me soooooooo mad when they say that they have no ideal I can't wAte for the new me and new life. good luck to u

Hi I'm new on here. I only told my husband, son, sister and two close friends. It's your decision. Good luck. My surgery date is July 3 rd.

Thank you all. Im happy to know that everyone on here is so understanding