Im not sure if im allowed to ask this lol but does anyone know how long u have to wsit to have sex

About 4 weeks

most people here will say "as soon as you're up for it."

just keep in mind that you should keep it simple and stay away from the rough stuff

Of course you can ask and it often comes up here. It's a factor that has to be considered as well. My Dr told me when I felt up to it, to go for it.............I'm still waiting. Just kidding on the still waiting part. He did say to start out reasonably and not doing anything too crazy or strenuous. I've heard other sleevers saying that their Dr told them to wait a few weeks.

I waited about 5 days. My doctor's words were that he didn't operate "down there" so whenever I was ready.

Do what your doctor says ... mine didn't say anything so day two in the hospital seemed like the perfect chance to make sure everything was still working correctly :-)

My doc says about 3 weeks.

Try at least once a year....Oh...you're not 64..never mind.

Most hospital based nurses agree that you should wait until you are out of the hospital. Beyond that, it's up to individual doctors' opinions which vary from "when you feel like it" to some weeks. Basically, it's down to being able to do things without distress - you probably don't want to be swinging from the rafters, but any positioning that accomplishes things in comfort is fine.

My doctor tild me about 10 days

Most hospital based nurses agree that you should wait until you are out of the hospital. Beyond that' date=' it's up to individual doctors' opinions which vary from "when you feel like it" to some weeks. Basically, it's down to being able to do things without distress - you probably don't want to be swinging from the rafters, but any positioning that accomplishes things in comfort is fine.[/quote']

LOL, I would hope that people would wait until they're out of the hospital!!!

My NP was suprised at my two weeks when I asked that same question. Her response was "you mean you're not already?!?!"

Try at least once a year....Oh...you're not 64..never mind.

gmanbat

LMAO

this 59 1/2 year YOUNG proud grammy is right there with ya!!!!!!

welllll.........

kathy