So, just curious while being big and husband not that small the traditional position is very uncomfortable... So that kinda only leaves "doggy style" after having the sleeve what are some things you may have done to spice it up in the bedroom and how long did it take to become comfortable? He met me at my thinnest 130 & my heaviest 280... So we once had a very active sex life before...

Try everything, twice!... now that's a goal worth having...

Try using the Liberator wedge/ramp combo... that is awesome!! Makes everything much easier. They have a 25% off sale using the code LOVEUSA. I recently got this for us and I love it. No more being smooshed and it so much easier to try different things and being easier on your joints.

Girl, you gotta get on top of this situation. It is the current favorite in our bedroom! It is a great way to have eye contact and be able to kiss and be super close. I think just being open to new positions and clothing options (like lingerie) can spice up the scene in the bedroom.

And I agree with Arts137, give them all a try!

Good luck and I hope you have a great time!

Omg! My guy was sleeved and is down 50lbs. I am losing with diet and exercise Nd only down about 10lbs. But, OMG is sex much more fun!!! Woohoo!