Skip to content
View in the app

A better way to browse. Learn more.

BariatricPal

A full-screen app on your home screen with push notifications, badges and more.

To install this app on iOS and iPadOS
  1. Tap the Share icon in Safari
  2. Scroll the menu and tap Add to Home Screen.
  3. Tap Add in the top-right corner.
To install this app on Android
  1. Tap the 3-dot menu (⋮) in the top-right corner of the browser.
  2. Tap Add to Home screen or Install app.
  3. Confirm by tapping Install.
  • Appearance

Join BariatricPal free

  • Ask your own questions
  • Reply and follow topics
  • Message other members
  • No cost, no spam

Emotional break down

Today's been very emotional for me. I'm on the verge of not having and the surgery and I'm scheduled for Tuesday. I've only lost 5lbs. The dietician said my liver was holding on to all the calories and fat it could. So now I'm scared that my liver will be in the way. I'm starving and feel like I'm gonna break. All I do at this point is cry. I'm honestly scared of dying or something going wrong.

  • Replies 5
  • Views 695
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Most Popular Posts

  • PainInTheGlass
    PainInTheGlass

    I went thru a stage in the weeks before surgery and found that if I educated myself on everything I could find on the gastric sleeve, I'd be better prepared for the surgery. Somewhat wrong. I did educ

  • johnlatte
    johnlatte

    I wouldn't worry too much. A good surgeon can easily work around a fatty liver. Shrinking just makes things a little easier, but I doubt seriously it would be a show stopper. Try relax, breath and

  • brittersmom
    brittersmom

    Thank you everyone. This is one of the hardest decisions I've had to make but I know I can do it.

Featured Replies

I wouldn't worry too much. A good surgeon can easily work around a fatty liver. Shrinking just makes things a little easier, but I doubt seriously it would be a show stopper. Try relax, breath and focus on the long term. The surgery is just a first of many steps. Hang in there, you'll be okay.

Just take a deep breath. If your liver is to fatty they will not operate. I was freaking out like you were the night before surgery. After waiting months, having my lapband removed and then waiting more months. I am now 4 weeks out. Down 32lbs including preop diet and feeling like a million bucks. This is serious and you should take that way. Obviously we can't look to the future and know all will be fine but for me i knew how my future would be without the surgery. The risks exist but are truly minimal. The first two weeks are hard but doable. I wish you nothing but success.

I went thru a stage in the weeks before surgery and found that if I educated myself on everything I could find on the gastric sleeve, I'd be better prepared for the surgery. Somewhat wrong. I did educate myself but praying sometimes works better than knowledge. I prayed for strength to get me thru this and a sudden calm came over me. The surgery no longer frightened me.

  • Author

Thank you everyone. This is one of the hardest decisions I've had to make but I know I can do it.

Join the conversation

You can post as a guest; create a free account to track replies, follow topics, and be part of the largest weight loss surgery community.

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

Account

Navigation

Search

Search

Configure browser push notifications

Chrome (Android)
  1. Tap the lock icon next to the address bar.
  2. Tap Permissions → Notifications.
  3. Adjust your preference.
Chrome (Desktop)
  1. Click the padlock icon in the address bar.
  2. Select Site settings.
  3. Find Notifications and adjust your preference.