Since I'm not hungry sometimes i forget that others need to eat. This afternoon my husband kept taking about going out to eat and i couldn't understand why he already wanted to go to eat. It was 12:00!

Come on over to bend its suppose to be gorgeous this week!

I told my family I would cook, but I would not figure out what to cook. Just tell me what you want....

Come on over to bend its suppose to be gorgeous this week!

I told my family I would cook' date=' but I would not figure out what to cook. Just tell me what you want....[/quote']

Bend is so pretty!

I forget sometimes. My cooking has become rather dull since the sleeve though but my husband never complains. He cooks as frequently as I do.

Sometimes I get grossed out watching others eat. Sometimes I just can't be around when people are eating mindlessly. I was never really aware on the focus on food in most social activities until I had the sleeve.

That said, tonight we have just sat down to a platter style antipasto dinner of breads, cheeses, salami, duck liver parfait, olives, tapenade, and stuffed peppers all with a nice bottle of wine :-)

Now no one can say that is a boring dinner! And it works for us because I can have a little bit of everything and he can polish off the rest :-D

haha.

If your looking for good recipes download ziplist on andriod. I was stuck and needed new ideas! Great thing is you save a recipe and the app will create a grocery list for you! Hallelujah!

I try to be the best husband and father I can possibly be and never take my wife for granted. That is the reason we have been together for three decades. I think the bulk of you need to "train" (for lack of a better word) your husbands to be better no matter how much you love them.

I think the strike thing works because sometimes you need to shock the person back to reality. However, I do not agree with with using sex as a weapon, but that may be the counselor/therapist in me. That can sometimes cause a backlash that neither party wants to deal with. That is just my two cents as a guy.

Sent from my iPad using VST

There is a big diff between using sex as a weapon and not wanting to have sex with someone because you don't like them very much at the time.

I've been with my husband for 20 years as of this July, married for 18 of them. Just like all married couples, we've had our ups and downs. During our ups, there is a lot of hanky panky, during our downs, not so much. I always love him, but I don't always like him and I have no doubt he feels the same way about me at times.

I am far too old to use sex as a weapon, but if I'm not feeling it, I'm not giving it away either.

Yes a weekend away so we can eat our Greek yogurt for dinner in peace!!

I have a house in Nags Head, NC if y'all fancy the beach. It sleeps 8 and seafood is high in Protein so we could go out, order dinner and all share it.

Can guys come? Lol

LipstickLady, I completely understand your point. Some women do use that as a weapon and it was presumptions to make a blanket statement. However, that is how the statement read to me. All longtime couples go through an adjustment period, and how they deal with it defines them as a couple. I'm not sure if this pertains to you, bur if a spouse consistently takes the other for granted then a lack of intimacy takes place. Has he come around and done better? I hope he has/does since you two have built such a life together.

BTW- I love the Nags Head area, my wife and I have a summer home on the Water in another part of NC. That is constantly being invaded by the kids and their friends. We hope to be "allowed" to go there in August.

Sent from my iPad using VST

I have a house in Nags Head, NC if y'all fancy the beach. It sleeps 8 and seafood is high in Protein so we could go out, order dinner and all share it.

Perfect! LOL.. I could see us all sitting down and ordering one dish or all of us..