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Despite Progress, It Is Still Hard Sometimes...

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I have done well so far with the following progress from surgery on 7-2:

Dropped 110 lb (335 to 235)

Dropped 10 pant sizes (46+ to 36)

Dropped 3 shirt sizes (3x to large)

Dropped all meds related to comorbidities

I look in the mirror and don't recognize the person looking back sometimes. Really leaning out and getting a swimmers physique.

However, it is still hard. I miss having some foods and enjoying drinks. It is not a cakewalk, but I am always reminded of how close I was to having a short life before and how much food owned every aspect of my life, even my mental health.

I would not go back despite the hard journey it has been. For the first time in a long time, I am happy about myself and the future.

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  • Good perspective! It is hard at times and will be hard at times all the way I think. The good part is that the massive positives belittle the hard times. I look at my deflated lower belly which h

  • Congrats to both of you... The journey may be long and hard but look where you are now! That is just awesome! I start my journey tomorrow.(sleeve day) and hope I can do as well as you two. You are

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    Congrats ! The journey is hard..... I love where I am, I would not change a thing.. but.. it isnt easy. People who think having WLS is the easy way out, just dont understand.

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Good perspective!

It is hard at times and will be hard at times all the way I think. The good part is that the massive positives belittle the hard times.

I look at my deflated lower belly which has the texture of a rotted orange and realize that it is likely that I will never be asked to pose for that huge picture of a guy with his shirt off that greets you at the entrance of every Abercrombie and Fitch. :angry:

But then I think, "These guys sell clothes, why are they promoting shirtlessness?"

Hey, I look pretty good in a shirt. I am getting strong as well. I am starting to like my belly. It reminds me of my victories.

Congrats to both of you... The journey may be long and hard but look where you are now! That is just awesome! I start my journey tomorrow.(sleeve day) and hope I can do as well as you two. You are my new roll models... thanks.

Congrats !

The journey is hard..... I love where I am, I would not change a thing.. but.. it isnt easy. People who think having WLS is the easy way out, just dont understand.

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