Completely Devastated :-(
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I would get a second opinion. I too have a small hiatal hernia. I've also had a band slip (cured by a unfill) and severe esophageal dilation (after which my band was removed). On numerous occasions,
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Had my appointment this morning...no surgery and even left with a small fill...I'm very very happy
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That is very devastating news. For such a permanent and life-altering decision like that, could you get a 2nd opinion? I am noticing from this site that many surgeons approach things a bit different.
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Well...after a very long and successful life with my lap band I have to have it removed. I am completely devastated, scared and depressed. Many of you all on this site know my story (it's quite a long one)...in case you don't, here it is in a nut shell:
2007: 275 pounds...had lap band placed
2008: learned that my husband was cheating for years, completely devastated
2009: after attempting to save marriage, asked husband to leave
2009: 141 pounds...had lower body lift and breast lift with augmentation...never felt or looked better in my entire life...
2010: Divorce was final (May)
2010: Diagnosed with breast cancer (December)..had lumpectomy followed by 6 1/2 weeks of radiation therapy
2011: Learned that I was pregnant by my (now) fiance'
2012: Underwent numerous doctors appointments and biopsies because they thought the cancer returned...luckily it did not.
2012: May 15, 2012, my post cancer miracle baby boy was born and despite the horrible statistics that they gave me...he is PERFECT :-)
Today: I went in to have a fill after having it drained during my pregnancy. About three weeks ago I had an upper GI to see the placement of the band. I was so excited to go get a fill only to be let down and told that I have a small hiatal hernia and I have to have the band removed...FOREVER. I am completely and utterly devastated. I gained a lot of weight with my pregnancy and I am so fearful of being fat and unhealthy again. I am sitting in my office at work crying over this...I feel like a part of me has died