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Hey all! For anyone that needs a buddy or mentor I wanna help! my name is ashley I am 27 from NJ I am married and dont have any children yet... I am 9 months post op and have lost about 100 lbs woot! (still cant believe it) I have gotten a lot of help and support in, my journey and want to help someone else out too! Look forward to meeting some new friends

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I desperately need the help. I am over a year out and lost 50 then gained back 15. I am not doing good and think some support would do me good.

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You're doing great Ashley!!!! :)

You can always be my buddy!!

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Hey germaine whats up? How are you doing?

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not good...what's your secret to all that weight loss?? i was banded on 12/16 and only lost 11 lbs, that really sucks...just got my 1st fill on 1/18 and my dr says that i shouldn't be concerned b/c i didn't have any Fluid in my band so he didn't expect me to lose much. He said that i won't start losing until I've had a few fills but i read post from others that have lost alot even b 4 their first fill...I'm getting discouraged....

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I truely need a buddy/metor its almost been a year and i havent lost very much . I am depressed from this !

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I REALLY need a mentor.

For my first band, the tubing was never connected, making it worthless.

This time, however, the band is working great!!!

I have so many questions and want to do everything right to make sure this band continues to work for me.

Thanks,

Terry

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U can all message me I am happy to help :) I will do yhe best I can we can do this together

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Hi what part of jersey are you from? I would really like a friend to support each other!

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i am in ocean county how about you ?

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I live in hackensack nj

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im in california

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I could really use a mentor/buddy. I am still pre-op and scheduled 4/5/12. I'm in Camden county, NJ.

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