Hi,

Im seriously considering a lap-band but hubby is dead set against it. He thinks I should be able to diet & keepit off on my own even tho I've battled my weight all my adult life. I have lost weight before, but its always found me again! ...

Im now 115kg, and my doctors/chiros want me to get to and stay at under 80kg because of spinal osteoporosis and other health issues.

Any tips guys??

If he is not supportive pre banding he probably wont be after. Its not about him but what you need to do to get your weight down. Just know that the possiblility will be there that he wont support you but move on to do what is best for you. If your husbands dont support you then what isthat saying about them?

If he is not supportive pre banding he probably wont be after. Its not about him but what you need to do to get your weight down. Just know that the possiblility will be there that he wont support you but move on to do what is best for you. If your husbands dont support you then what isthat saying about them?

Thanks F2F,

In the end I am going to do what is right for me, it would be nice to try and get him on side tho!

Tell him how great your sex life will be once you are feeling more confident in the way you look. It worked for my hubby! LOL