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has anyone been though this?

I had LB surgery March of 2009, I have reached my max weight of 270 lbs. Prior to surgery I lost 15 lbs and after surgery I started dropping the weight like carzy. I was down 74 lbs my first year. Now slowly but surely I am gaining my weight back. I have gained 27 lbs back and if I dont do something I will most likely gain it all back. I'm embarassed to go to my Dr. because I don't want him to see what is happening and I said that I would never go back to the way I was before. I pretty much eat whatever I want with the exception of breads. I know I have to get my heard right, eat right and exercise but I was wondering if anyone out there has gone through this and how you got back on track?

Thanks!

clh6226

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I have not been through this...But I have two questions for you. What do you have in you band? (CCwise) and would a fill help? Don't feel that way about your doctor...you are only defeating yourself. Good Luck.

I had LB surgery March of 2009, I have reached my max weight of 270 lbs. Prior to surgery I lost 15 lbs and after surgery I started dropping the weight like carzy. I was down 74 lbs my first year. Now slowly but surely I am gaining my weight back. I have gained 27 lbs back and if I dont do something I will most likely gain it all back. I'm embarassed to go to my Dr. because I don't want him to see what is happening and I said that I would never go back to the way I was before. I pretty much eat whatever I want with the exception of breads. I know I have to get my heard right, eat right and exercise but I was wondering if anyone out there has gone through this and how you got back on track?

Thanks!

clh6226

I had LB surgery March of 2009, I have reached my max weight of 270 lbs. Prior to surgery I lost 15 lbs and after surgery I started dropping the weight like carzy. I was down 74 lbs my first year. Now slowly but surely I am gaining my weight back. I have gained 27 lbs back and if I dont do something I will most likely gain it all back. I'm embarassed to go to my Dr. because I don't want him to see what is happening and I said that I would never go back to the way I was before. I pretty much eat whatever I want with the exception of breads. I know I have to get my heard right, eat right and exercise but I was wondering if anyone out there has gone through this and how you got back on track?

Thanks!

clh6226

it sounds like your band isn't tight enough. you might be embarassed, but go in and talk to you doc. he sees this stuff all the time.

i was banded around the same time as you, and i've had a really tought time losing. partly because my head isn't on straight and i'm struggling with emotional eating, and partly because the band isn't tight enough and partly because of series of things out of my control. i haven't seen my doc in close to a year because i've been embarassed. i finally sucked it up and have an appointment next week. i can't do this alone, and neither can you. even if it's just to talk and get remotivated, it's worth seeing your doc.

I am in that situation right now. Was banded Sept 30th, 2008 and initially lost 85 pounds in around 18 months. But in the last 9 months or so, I have gained back 20. I am so embarrassed, but I'm ready to get my rear in gear again. Called and made appointment with surgeon for Dec 9th. My surgeon has always been supportive, so I am praying he will be again then.

You sound like you need a fill and then you will start losing again.. Go to the doctor, don't feel embarrassed, they see this all the time. The last time I was at my surgeon's getting a fill I met two women who at first I thought they were there for consults to get the band. We all got to talking and they had both been banded several years ago and did not really follow up so lost a bit and then gained it all back. They were there to get started again. That's what you need to do. You will feel a lot better, I promise.

There isn't room for pride when you are trying to loose weight unless of course when it's to gloat when you get to your goal weight. Swallow the pride admit you need help and get a fill ASAP!!!! Then the next time you go to the doctor you can be proud you lost weight instead of gained!!!! Good luck!!!!

Been there too. GO TO THE DOCTOR !!! I had health issues, and meds that incerease wt. gain. after 18 months out. Gained 40 # -lost 25 of it. Am on a diet plan,, if i stick:rolleyes: to it. i did go to the Doctors. Got the meds changed, found i had stretched the esophagus ( duh) . so went to liquids and more measured portions . Am seeing the Surgeon in 2 weeks hope to be down more..

I know everyone is giving the "go get a fill" advice, and it could help... but you said it yourself in your post "I pretty much eat what i want."

That might be the problem. Getting back on track with eating the right foods and the right amounts will defiantly help. A Fill can help also, but the 1st is the most important rule i would think.

Are you exercising? Eating slidable foods? Drinking a majority of calories?

These are other things to think about.

I had LB surgery March of 2009, I have reached my max weight of 270 lbs. Prior to surgery I lost 15 lbs and after surgery I started dropping the weight like carzy. I was down 74 lbs my first year. Now slowly but surely I am gaining my weight back. I have gained 27 lbs back and if I dont do something I will most likely gain it all back. I'm embarassed to go to my Dr. because I don't want him to see what is happening and I said that I would never go back to the way I was before. I pretty much eat whatever I want with the exception of breads. I know I have to get my heard right, eat right and exercise but I was wondering if anyone out there has gone through this and how you got back on track?

Thanks!

clh6226

Most importantly, do something about it now! I had the same thing happened, made all the wrong choices, and have gained it all back PLUS extra weight. I started out doing everything I was told and little by little started breaking rules, missing follow ups, skipping the gym... So the fact that you holding yourself accountable now is such an important step! I wish I'd stopped myself sooner, now I am at the bottom of a VERY steep hill that I need to start climbing. Keep your head up though, if you did it once, you can do it again. I am in the process of trying to reteach myself about healthy eating habits and following the rules, so my thoughts are with you! It's also really good to know I'm not alone.

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