I just made a comment on someones post....and it got me thinking.....

how many people out there in a relationship think about other men or women (in my case I think of both)

.....what Im trying to say is ....why am I thinking of other men.... all the time.... I love my husband...he is a great person and would never cheat on me.....

with the weight loss I think of other people wayyyy more often now... its like I can't control myself...I cant think ,,,breath,,, I hope this wont lead to cheating??? anyone else out there think of other people......have you cheated because of it???

I just made a comment on someones post....and it got me thinking.....

how many people out there in a relationship think about other men or women (in my case I think of both)

.....what Im trying to say is ....why am I thinking of other men.... all the time.... I love my husband...he is a great person and would never cheat on me.....

with the weight loss I think of other people wayyyy more often now... its like I can't control myself...I cant think ,,,breath,,, I hope this wont lead to cheating??? anyone else out there think of other people......have you cheated because of it???

It's because you feel good about yourself. Your self-esteem is building up. And you feel sexy again. I think it's a normal process for anyone. Feeling that way is one thing, but acting on those impluses are another thing. If you feel that you need to cheat then maybe things in your current relationship can be spiced up a little bit. After all skinny sex is awesome. There are alot more things that can be done without all of that extra added weight on.

To answer your question. Yes I think of the same things every so often. And I love my husband also. I would never cheat.

DarkAngel,

Just because you are full, doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.

Having said that... as long as you love your husband and put your relationship with him #2 on your priority list (you have to be #1), you shouldn't have any problem being faithful. It's nice to think about extra attention, but it's SO much better to be loved. Your husband (I'm assuming) loves you big or small, that means he loves the person you are, not the package "you" come in.

So fantasize away!

You're totally free inside your own head, angel. What you do in the real world, though, is a different story.