dragonfly910

Anyone have any experience or advice for dealing with Oxford?

...seems to be the word that comes to mind. I've finally made the decision to talk to my doctor about getting banded, but suddenly i'm in the middle of a panic attack! This should be one of the happiest moments of my life (i'm about to make a major life change and become a different person by next year my 40th birthday) and I am TERRIFIED. Not because of the surgery, or the pain involved...but of actually going forward and making the change?! I'm thinking that therapy may actually be helpful while going through this transition. I assume that's the norm??