BJSkates76

Rock on! I'm scheduled for the 25th if the Optifast doesn't kill me first!

Ok, so I've completed the pre-requisites for my insurance company. The paperwork was submitted Sept. 1. I've seen it take only a matter of hours to be approved and others... months! I have BCBSTX UT Select PPO. They raised their deductible from 350 to 5000 for bariatric surgery! My dad's now on board as well as my husband. Dad's told me not to worry about the money. I have no idea what that means, but I guess I'll find out. On another note... right now... it doesn't matter if I get approved! I'm experiencing dizziness and fatigue, and my Dr has no idea what it is other than the fact my blood pressure isn't entirely stable. It's 100/70 lying down and 90/60 standing up immediately from lying down. Now, it's hard to get what the real number is from when I stand up immediately because I get lightheaded. Grr... always something in the way it seems. On another note... we have a new addition to our family. Lucian. He's a 2 y/o German Shepherd that we rescued from a kill shelter. Our Basset Hound Jeffrey passed away :confused: a couple of weeks ago. I had mentioned to my husband that I don't feel safe when I'm home alone being that we're in a new development without a whole lot of neighbors. So, I set out to find a dog that would make a good watchdog in addition to our Black Lab Thora who is a GREAT watchdog. She even barks at my phone. After a few visits with Lucian at the shelter, and Jason's approval, I adopted him! He is not a very good watchdog. He's needy and traumatized! I love him, though. He's very sweet and wants to make friends with everyone. Well, here's to hoping I get approved and figure out what's wrong with me and fix it in the mean time!

Welcome! Welcome! I'm new here, too. I had my first consultation on June 3. I don't have any advice to offer you for now, but I'd like to be a friend. Check out my profile! Much luck and happiness!!

Thank you so much for posting this. I really needed to hear this. Especially today... it was a little rough. My faith in my decision took a beating. So, THANK YOU AGAIN!! You gave me a boost I that needed.

I'm am JUST starting my lap-band® journey. My first consultation was June 3. I have 4 months till I'll be considered by my insurance for surgery. I'm looking for buddies and mentors. I'm friendly and usually respond to emails, messages, and postings daily although I am new here. I would just like the camraderie and support that other bandsters can offer. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post!

Ok, So I thought today was going to be easier than it turned out to be. I had lunch with my dad, and he wasn't very receptive to my wanting to go with lap-band. Lunch ended on a very awkward note which is not how I wish it had ended regardless. Growing up, it wasn't an easy relationship with him. He was a young parent and had marital issues with my mother. They divorced, and things changed dramatically between us. We became very close through our hardships. I realized how much our relationship has changed today. We're still close, but I didn't realize until today that I don't have to go to him with my thoughts completely organized and ready with a presentation for us to discuss. I should have just had an open discussion with him; instead it came off as a sales pitch. I want him on board this decision so bad. He said he'd support me in whatever decision I make as long as I'm happy, but I could tell it was just a placating statement. Sigh... I love him and hope he comes around.

Hi Amber! I'm a newbie, too. I sent you a friend request; I hope you accept! I wish you luck and happiness!

I am so happy that you responded, Mikissa! I sent a friend request. I love your sparkly name in your signature!

Holy Cow! You're just a few exits down the freeway from me! LOL!! I'm @ 646 and 45. I'd love to come by the support group. I'm having a harder time with my family than I initially thought. I could use an ear and some words of advice. Thanks so much for befriending me! I look forward to our friendship!

Wow Shelley! You're doing great! Thank you for adding me as a friend and for the compliment on my profile. Humble isn't too far from here in Houston terms. I have SEVERAL relatives there including my grandparents. I really look forward to our new friendship! Thanks so much!!

Howdy! I just started my band journey. I'm lucky to have the support of my husband and my mom. I'm telling my dad today. Read my profile if you'd like to know more about me... and I love to talk about me! LOL!!! I could use some friends to help support and guide me along. I won't be having surgery till Sept. at the earliest. I'm on a pre-op diet. I've read so many books, but I need information and support from HUMANS. So, will you be my band-buddy?