KarynA

God bless!... and what a trooper. Get some rest!

Sending warm wishes and positive thoughts your way. Feel better.

Good for you! You'll certainly get a lot of support HERE and hopefully your husband will come around. I'm sure he will. My husband loves me 'as is' too (God bless him - I don't know how I got so lucky) and only recently figured out just how important this lapband journey was to me. He really had no idea how often I thought about my weight and how many decisions were affected by my size... until I told him. Then one night, I was talking to him and leaning on our island (with my weight on my arms and elbows), and he said. "you do that a lot - are you okay?" and I said "ya, it's just hard to hold myself up sometimes". And then I saw the lightbulb go off. It's hard to be heavy... it's exhausting. He didn't know. Ever since then, he's been really supportive of the procedure....but he's scared too (being that its surgery and all). Maybe your husband is as well.

Anyway - best of luck to you!