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mommymya

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  4. Posted

    Hello, Hello! I was banded Dec 3, 2009 and I am soooooo excited to say that I am just about through losing. I have a few more lbs (becasue I want a buffer, lol) and am enjoying my new body so much. I feel really healthy, my body confidence is so much higher and I can do so many more things. Things I never really thought about before, so didn't miss. Now I think "how could I have never done these things!?"

    I just started facilitating two lap band meetings in my area and am happy to have the accountability as I learn about maintenance. I am currently saving up for the reconstructive surgery I hope to have by the end of this year. Its been a WONDERFUL journey for me and I am so happy to have had this forum to come to during the tough times. THANK YOU!

    ~Mya

  5. Posted

    Thank you so much for this video. I have160 lbs to loose and was just banded early March.

    I am still crying! It touched me very deeply to see you go from A to Z.

    You look great and happy! I really needed this today!

    Thank you for sharing.

    God bless.

    I am so happy to hear that my video transformation has touched so many. I am also happy to hear about you being newly banded. Looks like you are off to a fabulous start!! Good job! You can totally conquer this. Before you know it, you will be looking back (much like I did when putting together my little movie) with such pride and so much better health. Keep up the good work!!

  7. Posted

    LOVE IT!!!!!!!

    it was so cool, but little too fast so had to keep going back so could read your words

    weigh to go girl!!

    and that song is the bomb!!

    Thanks! I know what you mean about it being a bit quick. I made it in a hurry and meant to go back and edit it out a little longer. Needless to say, THAT never happened, lol. I am glad you enjoyed it though. :)

  9. Posted

    I don't know if i am just emotional but i loved your video. It made me want to cry watching your video. :) I have not been banded not for another 5 months or so.

    In the beginning, before my band, I would watch these types of videos and just BAWL. For me, seeing the light at the end of the tunnel was an AMAZING feeling. Seeing other people, just like me at the time, succeed really instilled some extra confidence in the journey for me. I am so happy to have been able to share with you before YOUR journey. :)

  10. Posted

    AWESOME VIDEO!!!! I like the line in the song that goes, "I might steal your clothes and wear them if they fit me." Cute!

    lol! I really liked that line too. I also really liked the line about her scars letting her know how far she has come. People get really funny about the scars I will have after reconstructive surgery and I always think of that line in the song when they bring it up. Thanks for checking it out!

  12. Posted

    I had my lapband done almost three full weeks ago. At the beginning of week three I started stage three. So I was having things that were a little more solid. I was trying fish and it wasnt going down very easy. It was going down just not smoothly. I chewed a little better and tried it again. It was just kinda sitting there, so I pushed my food away and I sat there politely hoping that feeling would pass. What I havent said was my husband and his buddy and I were out to dinner at a local place. I sat there for a few minutes and then stupidly and blindly reached over and took a sip of my Water. That very second I knew I was in trouble it was the first time something was going to come back up. So I sat there for a second and then thought I better go to the restroom. So I excused myself and made it to the restroom but as soon as I hit that door it came up. Thank god the restroom was empty. Everything was fine it was just the Water. I surely expected more the come back up but whatever. So I waited a few to make sure I was fine and went back to the table. My husband and his buddy were laughing but I didnt think anything about it. They got quite and then kept on talking. Oh did I mention this was suppose to be date night, but he invited his friend anyway. So needless to say I already felt out of place, and now I was upset with myself and a little shaking up because that had never happened before. But being Im not a crybaby I put on the brave face and acted normal. After they finished eating we left, and as soon as we got outside my husband busts out laughing talking about how red my face got and he started makign fun of me. I was really upset but didnt want to show my ass infront of this other guy. I told him it wasnt funny and that it scared me but then he just laughed even more, saying everyone throws up I should just get over it. Then we go to the movies. I have to sit there between the two of them PISSED OFF for two hours. So then we leave and get home, I havent said anything the whole time. The guy says bye and gets in his car to leave. My husband and I go inside. I swear to god I didnt even get all the way in the house before he starts up again. About how funny it was, how he knew because my face turned red. He didnt even care if I was okay, didnt even care after I told him it wasnt funny again, He still didnt care as I started to cry. I left the room and he was still giggling to himself. Then I lost it, I was in another room crying and he had yet to even really ask me if I was okay. My husband is not a jerk so I dont understand why he acted like that. His excuse was because Im so open about it and I will talk to people about my surgery openly he didnt see a problem with him telling his buddy I was throwing up. No, I kinda didnt have a problem with that. I had a problem with them, mainly him laughing at me. And on and off for over three hours! I just dont know what to do. Now I wont eat around him. Im scared myself anyway, but now I dont trust him.

    First off, here's some cheesy internet hugs (((hugs))). I am SO SORRY you had to go through this. No matter how open you are about the surgery, I believe you still deserve respect while you are going through all these new life/lifestyle changes. Possibly he was uncomfortable that it happened in front of his friend and chose to make lite of it. At any rate, it would have really hurt my feelings and I would be feeling just about how you are about it. Unfortunately it is really hard for others on the outside to know all of the things that you are going through: the fear, the excitement, the embarrassment, the self doubt, whatever. There are so many things we go through in this journey. Hold your head high and try not to let other peoples views get in the way of your goals. Coming from experience, there will be many many speedbumps. Even from those that you love the most, and who love you. Take things slow, and you will find a balance. You are still very new to banded eating. Hang in there.

  14. Posted

    Of course! When you go to the area (like the fast reply area) to change your signature there is a button next to the smileys button that looks like a chain with green box on it (I can't see it very well on my netbook) and that is the link button!

    It's very simple from there! Just copy and paste the link and type in the title you want below that :)

    Now, can you tell ME how you lost so much weight in only a year??? How often did you exercise? How strict was your diet and food portions? Do you have a fast metabolism anyway? The newbie would love to know your techniques!

    haha! Well, no I DO NOT have a fast metabolism. That is for.sure. What I did was I really made sure to eat Protein first, then whatever veggie (if I had room). I avoid most simple carbs. In the beginning I kept my carbs below 50g a day but kept my Protein at about 120g a day. This worked really well for me. I tracked all of this on www.lapband.com. I started walking AS SOON as I got back home from surgery. Then about 8 weeks later, I decided on a personal trainer. I knew I would not be able to be motivated enough to go to the gym by myself. Having appointments with a professional kept me accountable. I worked out with her using hand weights and some machines mixed with cardio twice a week. Now I attend her boot camp twice a week, which is much more affordable.

    I really don't have any money, so a lot of what I did was a financial stretch, but I KNEW it was an investment I would not regret. I also sought out a nutritionist I would see periodically, as well as a therapist. I also attend a support group twice a month.

    As I am typing this, I realize it sounds very overwhelming. I have 5 children, lost my car and my home this past year. So I guess my point is, if I can do it, so can ANYONE.

    Oh, and WATER!!! A very important part of this lifestyle is getting the Water and Vitamins so that you can flush out all the fat you are working hard to eliminate from your bottom, lol.

    SO, ya...this is what worked for me. Everyone is different though. Making sure to journal my intake helped me figure out what worked best for my body. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask! I am stoked to help. :)

  17. Posted

    Hi,

    I was banded on 9/27 - and would really appreciate to have a buddy through this process.

    Having a rough time with head hunger - and then the next day - I don't even want to eat a bite, or even drink a drop of Water..

    Is this normal?

    Thanks for your help..

    I have found that every day brings new challenges with the band. I tend to take one day at a time now, instead of trying to pre plan how I might feel. So, I guess yes....for me this I would consider normal. On the days where I find myself not interested in Water, I literally have to keep the water out and measure my foods to make sure I consume enough. I am in the Sacramento area too....if you ever want to chat, I would be very willing to do so. Hang in there! :)

  18. Posted

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    Just sayin'

    I hear ya! Lol!

  20. Posted

    Wow....of all the videos I have watched on YouTube this was the one that caused me to take the time to enter my info and have an account simply so I could save this as my first favorite. You would not by chance be interested in being an e-mail buddy / mentor to a newbie would ya? Wow....a huge congrats to you!!!!! Girl...you absolutely rock!!!

    I would TOTALLY love to help you in any way I can. I am sure that my success is greatly in part due to the support I have received. So it is like paying it forward to be able to help others. I am at myadudzik@yahoo.com if you want to email me. :)

  22. Posted

    WOW! Mya, you look awesome. The video really brings it home, it is a great history of your journey. Thanks for sharing. I know that you, your family and friends are very proud of your success. Keep up the good work. By the way, love the embracing your femminity pose. Karen(kll724)

    Thank you so much. For the most part, most are very happy for me. However, part of this journey (for me) has involved some seasons passing as far as relationships go, lol.

    I had so much fun doing those boudoir pics for my anniversary. First time in my life I have *EVER* done anything like that. :)

  24. Posted

    Would love to have someone who knows the ins and outs of being banded. :) Someone who doesn't mind answering lots of questions :P

    Hi There! I wouldn't mind helping you out! I have been banded about 14 months and have had great success. I am a married mom of 5 littles. I notice that you have some children too. My highest weight was 340 lbs and I have lost 190ish pounds so far. 40 of that I lost pre op though. I am VERY passionate about helping others lose their weight, as this has been MAJORLY life changing for me.

    If you want me to help ya, I will!

    Mya

    myadudzik@yahoo.com

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