MsFab1988

the surgury actually made me have my period on time! my period use 2 always come late(from a couple of days to a week)...but ever since i got banded on july 17, my first period came on the exact day it was suppost to. Im hoping that happens all da time cuz I hate when its late!!!!

maybe u look liked u were flirting in his eyes...sometimes we flirt n we dont even kno it..if u really love him maybe u should of sat down n talked about his jealously & if he doesnt stop then tell him its over...but jus breaking it off jus cuz hes jealous, doesnt sound too right...If a guy TRULEY loves u, he will get jealous (even for the smallest things) not saying thats healthy, just sayin it does happen....I kno my bf gonna get hella jealous when I lose weight cuz im a pretty big girl n get guys attention all the time..hes jealous right now lol...buttt I sit n talk 2 him all the time I tell him I kno u love me but if u get jealous/mad 4 every little single thing then I cant deal wit it and its gonna b over...so now he knows 2 control himself...good luck 2 u n hopefully ur ex changes, if not, find a new 1

u dont have to have sex but u can always do foreplay n oral sex...after my surgury (july 17) my bf visited me everyday at my house, I didnt have sex for 2 weeks, but at da end of the 2 weeks I made sure he got oral sex lol....I started havin sex with him about 3 weeks post op...You'll know when ur body heals

im glad u went to the ER and got some fluid thru the IV im assuming...hope time goes by quickly

be careful cuz u can dehydrate..I would call the office and speak to the operator cuz even if the office is closed the operator is always available...see wut they can do

I would never wait 3 min to take another bite, bad enough I gotta wait 30 min just to drink! lmao

never again will I dream of bein sexy as hell cuz imma make that dream turn into reality! end of story and the rest will fall into place :wink:

hey I was banded by Dr. Geiss on July 17!! he's the bestt! dont worry things will speed up...Everything seems slow because of money and time but once you knock down a good 4 appointments off ur list, things will speed up...your looking at about 2-3 months...but thats because doctors make you wait plus they make you come back for more test...but its all worth it...dont give up and if ur fam isnt supportive, you can always turn to this lap band forum for support, good luck!

my come back would of been "well atleast I aint fat no more...and if losin weight on ur own is so easy, wuts ur excuse? lmaooooo

thanks...I hope i'll be able to wear a bikini

My doc said that I was healing beautifuly....Im amazed cause I thought my scarrs would look horrible...what did the doc tell u guys about your scarrs?

dont worry u will get thru this stage...its a stage that helps us become stronger and it makes us appreciate any type of food lolol

oh ok lol...yeah ground beef is like hamburger except in tiny bitty pieces

lol.......were allowed to have hamburgers?

I took a bite of ground beef and said "heaven" lol...it was that good! I missed food! I dont even like mashed potatoes but right now its my fav! Im eating a small, I mean small amount of ground beef and mashed potatoes and it took me 20 min to eat it...I like chewin my foods now..chewing helps me taste the food now...im jus soo happy

everything took me 2 months bc of all those doc visits...my insurance accepted me within 2 weeks

at first I was freaking out while reading this cuz as an African American girl, my hair is short to begin with...but I usually wear weaves or get my hair braided so it doesnt matter anymore...and when I think bout it, its just hair..i rather lose hair while losing weight then 2 be fat with alot of hair lmaoo...I think we all will be fine cause it will grow back

congratz on ur weight loss! I think we all should exspect for ppl 2 get jealous of us when we succeed...not everybody wants 2 see us happy...alot of ppl dont really pay attention to us when were huge...but when were smaller, they notice every little thing...an example would be like I go to a club and 3 guys try to dance with me and ask for my number...but now when im 120lbs lighter, same thing happens at a club and now ppl wanna say "yeahh u lost alot of weight and look good now so guys are hitting on you more often" like what the hell?! I always looked good and I stay getting guys tryna talk to me..Im still the same person just look better! this didnt happen (because Im not small yet) lol but its something I see comming...I can already see that people will have answers as to why things are going to be good for me...and these answers will refer to my new weight..but when I weighed more nobody had answers to the same situations so I think your friends wife is just jealous and is looking for an answer to why her husband is talking to you..before it was because he wanted to be friends with you but now because u lost 160lbs she thinks he likes you I would just not pay her any attention and keep doing what makes you happy

beth how much did u lose?

I was banded on the 17th and all I can talk about now is how hungry I am! Im jus sittin here counting down until next monday cuz then I can have soft foods...I too go 2 bed early just so I can not think about food...People piss me off when they eat and say "im so sorry fab" but I jus smile and tell them "dont be sorry, I feel sorry 4 u cuz while im losing weight your gaining it" lol then they have nothing to say. I keep myself busy and I guess I just count down till soft foods...things will be ok 1 day..and remember nothing comes easy, we got to suffer to get what we want :smile2: thats what gets me through these days

I was banded on the 17 of july n I cried for like 2 days straight! I had gas the whole week! now its week 2 n I cannot wait 2 get off this liquid diet..I too find myself wonderin why I got this band. I get so frustrated when everybody is eating chineese food and im sipping on shit...but I try to remain calm n tell myself that if I want to succeed I have to suffer...thats they only way I get through these tough days...its only mon and im dreaming of next monday so I can finally have some scrambbled eggs! wooo-ho! :smile2:

well if u tell 1 person, the whole world will know...I told a few people before my surgury and then after that everybody was allowed to know. My mom didnt want everybody knowin before I had surgury because she feared they would talk me out of it...But she didnt understand that I didnt care what people think and that I do what I want with my body. But anyways, after the surgury, I didnt even have to tell anybody. They all knew. Because people have mouths and dont kno how to keep it shut. But everybody is supportive and are really happy for me! Once u have the surgury what can they say??? They will be happy for you...Before u have ur surgury, you think u can tell 5 people but your really telling 10 and so on and so on cuz in the end they each will tell ATLEAST 1 person...Then u look extra dumb in the end. You start tellin people "yeah i lost weight by diet and excersize" but they really kno the lap band is givin extra support. I would never wanna set myself up for something like that. People can know because its there to help me and maybe they can be helped as well. I'll never be embarressed of my band, I love it :crying: But some people are different so if you think its best to keep it to your self then do it

Im from Long Island (Huntington Station) and I was banded by Dr Geiss in Syosset North Shore Hos...he's the BESTTTTTTTTTTTTT!

im glad 2 hear everything went well! :skep: good luck tomorrow!!!