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Everything posted by mcw12985
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my face hurts?
Hey guys. I had my surgery yesterday. I felt great yesterday, pretty sure it was from the morphine. Now I ache all over, of course my abdomen is sore. Yesterday I didn't have any discomfort from the trapped gas I was warned of, but now my shoulders and neck feel like that they have taken a beating. But something I haven't heard about -- my whole face is sore? It hurts to open my mouth. The front part of my neck is sore as well. My jaw, everything. Did anyone else feel as sore as I do? Thanks, Mallorie
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For struggling new bandsters
*~*bump*~*
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Time off from work?
Hi. I was banded yesterday. While I am in some pain right now, I think I will feel up to going to work on Monday. The only time I really hurt (and this is one day after surgery, mind you) is when I'm trying to get out of bed. As I'm sitting here at my desk, the pain isn't so bad. So I think in about a week I will feel okay. But let it be your decision. If you feel like you're overdoing yourself in any way, don't go back to work until it's right for YOU. You don't want to risk damaging the band in a rush back to work.
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Scared to death of relationships?
I second what Elisabeth said. You're 18, probably your first year of college, enjoy yourself. I'm 21 and married to my high school sweet heart, but sometimes I wonder what it would have been like if I had dated more people. Don't get stuck. Your personality will change drastically from the age of 18 to 25. Have a great time, just don't get pulled into anything that you can't get out of. Mallorie
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Surgery Thursday - I'm Nervous
No worries!! I was banded today, and I'm feeling pretty good. Keep in mind you'll probably have a large dose of morphine when you wake up. I was out of the hospital by about noon today. I'm sore now, but it's like ab muscle sore, you know, when you do several situps etc. My doctor gave me liquid Hydrocodone, and it is quite nasty. It tastes like Robitussin (sp?) Don't be worried!! I was so nervous this morning that my face was starting to splotch, something it has never done before. You'll do great. Just get plenty of sleep the night before, otherwise if you're super super tired, it's more difficult for the anesthesiologistto wake you up after surgery. Best of luck, and tell us how it goes!!! Mallorie
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if you search girl
Somehow... I don't think you're at the right place.
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Eating Solids Too Soon?
Hi!! I was banded today! Yay! I have a question for some of you experienced bandsters -- did you lose a significant amount of weight in the month following the placement of the band? It seems like you would lose quite a bit from just being on liquids/very soft foods!
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OT - Steve Irwin dies
Couldn't believe this when I read it. I called my husband, he is a big fan, and he didn't believe me. His co-worker called him shortly after, and now he believes me. I can't help but think that Steve Irwin should have gone a different way. I know that may sound bad -- Anyone can go on a tour and pet stingrays/swim with them, etc. Not many people go close to venemous snakes and crocodiles. You would think it would not have been a stingray that killed him. All aside, I'm thinking of his family. I hope they are with close friends and family.
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PreOp chaos
I'm going to be banded on Sept 5. I am supposed to be on the two-week liquid diet right now. I have done great the past week and a half.... Today my husband brought home Burger King and I stole one of his fries..... and then I went down to BK myself and got a chicken sandwich. I feel so so so guilty. Has anyone else cheated this bad?? I think I may go throw it up.
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Multivitamin Enough?
I have been taking TO YOUR HEALTH liquid vitamins for about a year. I know most of you cringe at the thought of a liquid vitamin, but the drinks tastes like fruit juice. My doctor explained to me that liquid is better absorbed by your body and you get more nutrients out of liquid than you do from a pill/capsule. The vitamin is pretty pricey, but I definitely think it's worth it, I can tell a difference in the way I feel. Here's the link if anyone is interested! To Your Health
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The Super Diet
Sounds worth a shot. 1st part is the Atkins/Southbeach diet.
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Anyone Else Have To Do 2 Weeks of Liquid Pre-Op???
I'm in the middle of the 2-week pre-op diet right now. Surgery is Tuesday. I AM DYING!!!! This week I am only allowed to have 4 protein shakes a day. I wrote in another post that I have actually been dreaming about french fries, no joke. My saliva glands are working overtime. I can't speak to someone if they talk about real food. lol.
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What was your last straw?
Mine is the fact that I can't see my family until I lose weight. My dad's side of the family is very superficial. Every time I talk to my grandmother, it's "How's WW going," or "Have you been using that treadmill?" My dad's current wife is very thin, probably 5'2, 115 lbs, if that. Even before my real fatness days, I saw her watching everything I would eat. Some people don't know how to have conversations about anything other than food/exercising, and that's my family. I asked my dad one time to write me a prescription for something to help with the breaking out on my face, and he told me, "You know, when I was your age and was breaking out, I just hopped on the treadmill, does a lot of good." Love the family, loves them.
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dreams (nightmares rather) during two-week pre-op diet
I've been chompin on some popsicles this past week, and I assume I can have them next week as well. I guess I should probably call and ask. I'm pretty sure I shall wither away and die.
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dreams (nightmares rather) during two-week pre-op diet
The past week I have been doing 2 Protein shakes for breakfast/lunch, then a SmartOnes for dinner. (They let me squeeze in some protein bars) Tomorrow starts strictly Protein Shakes, I can have four per day. French fries...
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dreams (nightmares rather) during two-week pre-op diet
I am dreaming of french fries, and even though I haven't ever had them, those chicken Fries things from Burger King. So very hungry....:faint:
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No "crunches"?
I haven't had the surgery yet (1 week), but I met with my surgeon last week and I asked him about exercising. He told me whenever I felt up to it after the surgery, I could do whatever kind of exercise I wanted. That's just what I've been told, I would wait to hear from people who actually have the band first before you start doing 8 Minute Abs.
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PB'g at Work
Hi Everyone, I'm going to be banded in a week, Sept 5. :clap2: I have been reading about this PB and slime stuff. This makes me nervous. Does this happen often in a public place?! I am a court reporter, and I can just see myself now sliming the judge or an attorney, zomg. NOoooo! Please reassure me, Mallorie
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Quit smoking for before WLS?
So my insurance is pending but now they say they need a medical clearance letter from my PCP saying that I am fit and medically stable enough to have the surgery. I talked to my PCP's nurse today and she said I would have to come in for an EKG and a chest x-ray. zomg. Did anyone else have to have this done? What if he sees something in my chest from smoking (I can't imagine cancer quite yet, as I am only 21yo, but you never know) Will he say that I'm not fit to have the surgery? Eeeegad. Can you see tar and buildup on the chest x-ray? yuch yuch yuch. I really should have quit when I told my PCP I was going to. Now he's going to see that I fibbed a wittle bit.
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Tennessee Bandsters ??
Hey Guys, So I decided to drive from Knoxville to Nashville to see Dr. Morton. I had the psych eval in Nashville as well. Well, the past week I have been waiting on insurance and then I finally called them to see how the authorization was going. Now insurance says that I need a nutritional eval. Does anyone know of any nutritionists in the Knoxville or surrounding area? I guess if I have to I can go Nashville and go to one of the nutritionists that Dr. Morton works with, but I would like to avoid the trip if necessary. Please let me know if you all have had any success with some around here. THanks, Mallorie
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BlueCross BlueShield Nutritional Eval
Thank you, Bettina, for your response! Well, I actually called BCBS before I made an appointment with the surgeon to make sure the surgery wasn't an exclusion on my policy. When I called, I also wanted to know what all I had to do to qualify. They told me the things I listed: Psych eval, medical necessity letter, overweight (obviously), and two comorbid conditions. They didn't mention the nutritional eval. I don't mind going to the nutritionist, it's just that I have a limited time to get all of this taken care of. I would like to continue seeing one after the surgery, but I can't do several months of it before, because my husband is joining the service in a little over a month. I'm going to call BCBS back on Monday to see what it is that they expect. Surely if they needed several months to review, they would have told me that when I called. All they said was that I needed a "Nutritional Evaluation." By the way, what exactly is that? What does the nutritionist write that will help the insurance process? On side note, has anyone seen a nutritionist in Knoxville, TN or in the surrounding area? The surgeon I'm going to is in Nashville, and I already went to Nashville for the psych consult because they work with them on a regular basis. But if I can, I would like to do the nutritional eval here in Knoxville to save a trip. :Banane56:
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BlueCross BlueShield Nutritional Eval
Hi Guys, So I've been on the edge of my seat this week waiting to hear if insurance will approve me. I was told I needed a psych eval, letter of medical necessity from my PCP, to be heavy enough, have 2 health problems associated with being overweight, and I was good to go. Did all that/have all that. WELL, I just couldn't contain myself and called BCBS SHPS to see how the authorization was going. They said it was pending, but now I need a letter of medical clearance? What the! :Banane56: I guess that comes from my PCP as well. You would think the letter of medical necessity would be enough, that he wouldn't write it if he didn't think I was physically able to have surgery. Secondly, I have to have a nutritionist eval. What is this!!! :help: I've been looking at the forums and see that people have had to work with a nutritionist for several months before they could even HAVE the surgery!! Very not good, as my husband is joining the Air Force in September and this good insurance will be gone. So what is a nutritional eval? Are some of these only 1-time visits? Please inform me!! I'm soooo nervous right now because I need to get everything done so quickly, but I feel like I keep falling back a step. Please tell me someone else has BCBS and that it wasn't that big of a deal! Stressing, Mallorie
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Stretch Marks
What happens to them!!! When you lose a significant amount of weight, do they diminish, thin, disappear??
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Primary Care Physician Referral
Hi Guys, I have my first appointment with Dr. Jack Rutledge in Chattanooga, TN on Thursday. I'm trying to get everything in order and everything together before I go see him so the process will be smooth and fast. Tomorrow is Monday, and I need to call my primary care physician for a "medical necessity referral." Joy. I'm new to Tennessee, only been here a year, so I have only seen this doctor once. He seems very conservative -- in fact, when he told me he wanted to see me lose some weight, he mentioned that his wife worked at the local Weight Watchers. I just don't know if he will do it, and plus I don't have a "five year history" report from any doctor about being overweight. Did anyone else stress out about this as much as I am? Did the referral letter not end up being that big of a deal?? Please say so! Mallorie
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Tennessee Bandsters ??
Hi Everyone, I have been to Dr. Rutledge's seminar in Chattanooga at Memorial Hospital. I live in Knoxville, but I made the drive because he had the seminar quicker and seemed to be able to get me in faster, as opposed to Knoxville doctors, and I have a very limited time to get this done. I have BCBS right now, but my husband joins the Air Force in September so the good insurance who says they will cover it will be bye-bye. Has anyone else looked into Dr. Rutledge? He does the lap-band, but he seems partial to the bypass.