Hello! I feel your stress. I finally got my surgery date...July 2nd! I totally panicked once the date was set. Any of us who have gone this far with all of the tests and classes and insurance approval battles, know it is the best decision for us to have a more healthy and productive life. I am sorry about your friend situation. I went through it a year and a half ago. It was very difficult. I still do not speak to my friend. It was my decision and a good one, now looking back. I hope your friend issue works out the way you want it to. Best of luck with your surgery tomorrow! We are all going to be fine!