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Hey Lil Miss Diva! It has been much too long since I`ve checked in here! My band has been empty for awhile, my port was leaking. So I haven`t lost any either. But I got it revised on may 24th and also had a hernia repair and a tummy tuck! they took off 9 pounds for the tummy tuck. yay! I`m so excited to not have my big flab of belly anymore. I`m anxious to be able to work out again. any problems with your band?

I want to wish all the VVs a very happy New Year! We're alomost up for our Bandiversary! I feel like we should have some sort of celebration as ALL of us have worked so hard! I will be having surgery soon. I have to have 2 hernias repaired and as long as they're working in that area they are doing a tummy tuck as well!!!! I feel like that is my Christmas present, Happy New Year and bandiversary gift all in one! I'm just a little excited. :biggrin: Lil'missdiva, don't feel bad. I think most of us took the holiday off of working out and being concerned about our food choices. I know I sure did. But as I said before all of us have worked so hard over the year. We deserve to pamper ourselves once in awhile guilt free! Besides, you have an amazing action plan for the New year. EZMA, I will search for you on face book. I don't have access to it often, so don't think I've forgotten, meanwhile if you want to try again it's Julie Polak in Albuquerque NM. I wish everyone well, take care and be safe for any celebrating!

Hey girls! Ezma, that was probably my profile on facebook. I recently put a picture on there though. Hope you're well. LilMissDiva, wow another great plan from you. that sounds fun buying all that stuff, I wish I could. Keep us posted on what seems to work the best for you. I was doing pretty good for awhile, then all of the sudden I really fell off the wagon. Which sucks because it really seemed like I was at a sweet spot. I'm just too stressed it's really hard to focus on losing weight right now. I GAINED ABOUT 5 POUNDS BACK! URGH! Well all we can do is our best. Christmas next week. YIKES!

Hey everyone. Just a quick hello. I think I've decided I'll just be happy if I don't gain over the holiday. So I'm trying not to go too crazy with the goodies. However I did reach a new low of 192. LIL missdiva sorry your so unhappy withthe band, with good reason. I admit I haven't lost as much as I expected when I first got it. Are you losing at all? gaining? or just staying the same? How's working out going? Well anyone who wants to look me up on facebook my name is Julie Polak. I haven't done much with it as far as pictures etc. I can't get it at work either, so I don't check it often. But I will eventually check it. All take care. Hang in there everyone!

Hey Everyone. These are very trying times for me. Between all the stuff I'm dealing with at home, the new computer system/elctronic health records at work, and the holidays I feel frazzled! :w00t: EZMA, You totally broke my heart. I wish I could give you a hug. What ShinyHappy said was good advice. We should embrace and take joy in our good memories of our lost loved ones. Easier said than done, I know. What someone told us is to celebrate and do what you normally do on the holidays, and just know that he will be there in spirit. You will be in my thoughts and in my prayers. I do admire how strong you are in carring on the way you have. LilMissDiva, What's up on your side of the world? Are you still on the pre op diet? How did your fill go. Glad to hear you're feeling good shiny happy mommy. Hope everyone else is well.

:tongue:EZMA, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! :tongue: Hope you had a wonderful birthday. You are doing so awesome with the band too. Did your appt go as well as you hoped? Keep up the impressive work! LilMissDiva, Sorry about your aunt. I guess it really does change things to lose someone. Makes you think. Sometimes you wonder how much of a difference you make in peoples lives, more than you think I'm sure. That's cool you're getting another adjustment. Just in case i don't check in before then I hope it goes well for you. I'm back down to pre Thanksgiving weight. :smile: Hope I can keep it off. Other than that work and life is STRESSFUL! I'm just trying to hang in.

Hey all! Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. Ours was ok. It was somber, due to it being the 1 year anniversary of my father-in-laws death. He passed away Thanksgiving night last year. But we had eachother, and a nice dinner. I put on 4 pounds too! But I've taken a couple off already. Yesterday I worked out for an hour, gave 3 dogs baths, and went shopping, so the scale was better today. Thank you Ezma for your kind words. I am so proud of you losing 12 pounds! I know you said you gained a few back over TG but still that is awesome. I'm sure they'll come off quickly. LilMissDiva, Thank you for your support also. It sounds like you are making great progress. That is wonderful! I guess we all go through our slumps, and it looks impossible. But somehow, someday it seems to work out. Thank God! Wow! I envy lil miss, and ezma for being able to go back to the pre op diet. Maybe someday I could convince myself to do it. But right now I don't thinks so. I've slacked some on the work outs, I'm trying to get back into it. It's so hard when inside I feel so sad. Sorry Shiny happy Mommy about your problems and pain. Hope it gets better soon. Talk to everyone soon.

Hey everyone! Hope everyone's week is off to a good start. I saw a new therapist yesterday, and she was really great. She gave me a lot of good insight. It renewed some hope for me, which feels priceless. Wow Ezma 7 pounds! That is great! I'm so proud of you and Lilmissdiva actually going back to the preop diet. OMG i don't know if I could. Or at least not without looking like this :thumbup: Not much else to report for today, just wanted to check in. So here we go preparing for Turkey day! At least Turkey is healthy, and has protien. YAY!

I seriously doubt that just because you're a lesbian you're more likely to become obese. I know gay people and staright people who have different issues with depression/ self esteem etc. some thin some not. If there is any truth to it I would say it's because women feel more comfortable being themselves with other women, and women are more accepting. Usually.

Hey everyone, Sorry I've been such a stranger lately, I just have so much going on. I've just been so unhappy lately, mostly due to marital problems. Things have been so difficult with my husband due to his depression and anxiety. I've been struggling to help him for years, he seems to be getting worse instead of better, and not doing everything that has been recomended. It really seems hopeless anymore. I'm trying to keep my head up so I must focus on what is good. Also I might have to have another surgery. My doctor thinks I have a hernia. So I talked it over with my plastic surgeon, he said we can do a tummy tuck at the same time. :confused: I wasn't planning on doing the TT this soon, as I still have more weight to lose, but I think it will be ok. I don't think I'll have more loose skin after loosing a little more after the TT. So I'm kind of excitied about that. I will have a CT scan on the 28th to verify if it is indeed a hernia. On one hand it's like another surgery?!!!!! But on the other hand, if I can get rid of some of this belly I will be thrilled!:scared2: I reached a new low of 195. I got another adjustment on 11-13-09, I'm feeling like LilMissDiva said, I don't get hungry, I able to stop eating with no effort. It is like a dream, I never thought that would be possible for me. By the way, LilMiss, you look great! WoW! you have come a long way, You have much to be proud of. And you're on, I'll take a challenge for our bandiversary. I'm going to shoot for 180. That seems doable without killing myself. And yes, I know you can do it, you showed us the proof. Glad you're well. I'll try not to stay away so long anymore, I missed you all.

Hey Girls! I'm having kind of a blue day today. Not sure why, nothing specific has happened. But nothing new or nothing serious, so I'm sure I'll get through it. LilMissDiva, something you said did cheer me up a little though. I gues that is something I forgot, that typical Lapband weight loss to reach goal is about 5 years. I don't feel like a failure now! Sometimes I'm able to aknowlege the fact that I've lost 60 pounds, and that that is a significant amount of weight, but other times I feel like I have a long ways to go and wonder how I'll do it. But on the up side, today I did my workout (1 hour of Kettlenetics, ouch!)even though it took every ounce of strength to get out of bed this morning! So far eating today hasn't been too terrible. Melissa, has your band already been emptied? How are you feeling? Ezma, how is your side of the world? Tapshoes, have things improved for you? Okay ladies, we must, we must! :thumbup:

Hey all, not much to report really. Congradulations to Melissa. All the weight you lost will give you a better chance at a healthy pregnancy. Lower risk of Gestational diabetes and high BP. Keep us posted on how things go for you, best wishes. LilMissDiva- It's nice to see you all fired up again. It was funny about your ring falling off. Usually we're so busy about losing weight off our bellies or backsides we forget about the little places it comes off of. Tapshoes-How is your struggle going? I've had a better time for 2 days now. I pray it lasts. Ezma- how are you? things ok for you? Okay group hug!