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CONGRATULATIONS, I'm so happy you have your date! I like to keep things to a minimum, I think I brought a comb, lotion and chapstick, a comfy dress to wear home. Good luck!!!

Congratulations on your date...the time will be here before you know it!

I started feeling like I could eat more "normally" around 2 months out (I think) and by 3 months post-op I definitely didn't have the dread/fear before eating. I remember reading posts from people further out (when I was in the immediate post-op stage) saying that this time was such a small part of the journey and I felt like it would never end, but it really does. And now, it's hard for me to remember the specifics of that time period (and I'm not that far out) because it really is just a temporary part of the journey that does pass. Good luck and hang in there!

6 pounds in a week is AMAZING! Congrats on your loss.

I'm glad you're feeling better and better. Please keep us posted and I hope you're back to normal, pain-wise, soon.

Those are wonderful victories, CONGRATULATIONS!

Great news!!! I loving dancing...it really does make exercise fun and easy, glad you found something you enjoy!

Okay, I started writing this post in response to someone's question on the main discussion forum and realized this was a huge ramble and went way beyond what she was asking. So instead I thought I'd post it here because it's more of a reflection and would probably fit better on my blog. I told pretty much anyone that would listen before surgery, BUT I love to talk (I told anyone who asked about my fibroid surgery last year as well if they happened to ask or were around me for any length of time)! I share a lot about what I am thinking and pre-op, the vsg was pretty much what was on my mind all the time. The thing that has been the most annoying for me wasn't really negative reactions when I told people (I can remember 1), but people (who I told numerous times) post-op wanting to constantly talk about my weight loss and how I was doing it. I have coworkers (and exercise buddies) ask me about my current weight, clothing size, etc. and want to know what diet and exercise plan I used to achieve such great results. I've already told EVERYONE about my surgery and when I explain again I get "oh" and don't think they are really listening and am sure to get the same questions again next week by the same people. Another thing to consider when deciding to tell people is the whole "food police" issue, especially coming from those that are very supportive and excited for you. Today I had a colleague walk in and he saw half a donut next to my computer (we had a baby shower breakfast and yes, I ate a donut then and this was actually my 2nd that I went and got from the workroom for my lunch) and asked "what is that doing here? you are my hero," basically implying that I should never "slip" with my eating because I've been inspiring him to eat better and start exercising again. I just smiled, rolled my eyes, and asked if he needed anything else...he got the point, but I think this could get super annoying if it continues to happen (not that I plan on eating donuts daily). In the end, I don't think it really makes a big difference whether you tell or not as long as you feel okay about the decision. I needed to tell people before surgery because it was a way to process my decision and I just like to gab. I've told people after (except my tap class) because I'd already told so many. For the most part everyone is really excited and happy with my results. Now I'm just hoping to be able to move past this surgery and weight loss and live a more normal life. It's not like I'm super small, but you'd think by the constant comments that I've done the most amazing thing ever. I just want to be normal and not have people focused on me because of this weight loss anymore.

Welcome Kim! I think many of us started looking into getting the band. I'm so happy that I began reading and learning about vsg...it's been one of the best things I've done for myself and I hope you'll feel the same. Please feel free to ask any questions you have along the way. There are many knowledgeable people here who love to share their experiences. Good luck!

Welcome to VST and congratulations on getting your date! Good luck with the pre-op journey and keep us posted.

Congratulations Lee!

Congratulations! Thanks for sharing your experience. It seems like you have a very good outlook on this loss and life.

I know many people report to having very little pain and pretty much feel normal quickly, but that wasn't my experience either. I'm glad to hear the fever is gone and good luck on the rest of you're recovery...it really does get better.

Tiff, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

You can and will definitely do this! Congratulations so far.

Great news! Yeah, I've been having the blood pressure issues as well...although the last two days it's been better.

Today I weighed 147.5 lbs. That is up 0.5 a pound from last Monday, but I will say I enjoyed my beef teriyaki each day I was home in Washington State last week, which was not so wls appropriate:-) I'm taking one more night off of exercise today because I got really sick over the weekend and am still just so tired. That means my exercise routine has dropped from 5-7 days each week, to 2 days a week for the last 3 weeks...oh well. I hope everyone else had a good week.

Yay!!!!!! I know it wasn't your intent to lose this much, BUT you look GREAT! I love the new pics in your skinny jeans. Glad you're feeling better and I, too, cannot wait to get back into a normal exercise routine (although my excuses aren't valid like yours...nothing to do with health restrictions).

Thanks for your encouraging words. Everything turned out fine on that front:-)

This morning I'll be flying to WA State for a couple of days. It wasn't planned, so just yesterday I called a couple friends to let them know I'd be in town. Due to this trip not being about pleasure I wasn't even thinking about my weight loss until my best friend asked, "so are you an anorexic, skinny chick now? Will I even recognize you? are you a completely different person?" It was said in good humor, but it kind of took me by surprise. I still think overall I am the same person...just a little different. I'll post more when I get back about the reactions I get. I really hope it's all okay because I don't think I can handle any more drama.

EXCELLENT!!! You are doing a fantastic job working your sleeve!

I have no idea, don't think I've seen it done???

Good for you! It's great that this tool helps you learn to deal with life's issues without using food as a way to cope.

I'll be thinking lots of positive thoughts for you tomorrow.

Thank you ladies. I'll let you know what, if anything I find out today. I took my bp this morning and it was 102/62 and a pulse rate of 61, that's better:-)