Melissa Anne

Peaches, thanks so much for your advice and honesty. Sometimes God works in mysterious ways. I was due for surgery today, but because I caught a cold over the weekend they had to cancel it. I'm in the midst of changing jobs and may not be able to work in the surgery. Maybe it's just not the right time.

Kartman thanks so much for your support - I need it right now! Best wishes to you also - we're going to do great

I was so excited a few weeks back about getting the lap band. Insurance is paying for it. But I started to read the post under lap band removal and all the people who say it does not work after 3-4 years and the erosoin of the band and how they had to have it removed and never wish they did. My friend said her neighbor got the band a year ago and has only lost 40 pounds. :thumbup: I can do that on WW. I am really freakin out if this is the right thing. I have been overweight on the up and down roller coaster of dieting for almost 20 years. Anyone else go thru this?

Are you glad you didn't cancel? I'm scheduled 2/18 and am thinking about cancelling...

I am scheduled to have my band placed in 1 week. I have been and still am really excited about starting my new life and most especially seeing the results after using my new tool. However, now that I'm close enough to be counting down days, arranging for a substitute for my classroom, shopping for items I'll need pre and post surgery, I'm finding my nerves becoming more and more active. I have random moments of "what the hell am I about to do to myself" and have visions of getting the band and freaking out and wanting to claw it out. I really do know that I want this and I know I'm ready to do what it takes to work with the band. Anyone else go through this before their surgery? I guess I'm afraid that my history of panic attacks will rear its ugly head at the hospital before surgery. I'm worrying about little things, like will the IV or leg wraps for blood clots trigger my claustrophobia, etc. Am I normal or is this a bad omen?

Okay, so I'm PANICKING! Surgery is a week away and I want to turn around and hide! I don't know what to do - I keep praying and asking God to show me what's right. Why can't I just diet and exercise and lose weight on my own? I keep thinking that maybe I should give that another shot. I don't know what to do!

Hi Everyone!

I'm scheduled to be banded on 2/18 and am having serious second thoughts. About 5 years ago I was in OA and dropped 75 lbs. I stopped working the program and have slowly put it all back on plus some more. About a year ago I decided I wanted a lap-band. Fast forward to the date of my approval last month, and I've started doubting my decision. All I think of is the food I won't be able to eat anymore! I know I am a compulsive overeater, food addict and am powerless over food. Knowing that, is lapband really a good idea? I know I want to be healthy and regain freedom from compulsion - but I'm not sure this is the best way. Am I being impulsive to think this will be some kind of miracle to make me not want to eat (even though I'm well aware it isn't) - wouldn't it just be best to get back into the rooms and work it naturally? I'm ashamed and embarrassed that I've come this far and now want out! I've told people about my surgery and planned time out of work to accomadate it. What am I going to do? My surgery is all I can think about - it's truly driving me nutty. I've been on my pre-op diet for over a week now, and have majorly cheated twice - a box of oreos on one occasion and another time 2 slices of chocolate cake. If I can't even get through the "diet" how can I get through the new lifestyle??? I'm so sorry for rambling, I'm just so lost in my addict head right now! Can someone help me?

I can totally relate - if it's not food, it's cigarettes, spending money, sex, drugs, alcohol etc. It's a disease and it's not your fault. You can cure it. I'm not sure what's available in Australia, but I would look for a 12 step group - they have a Debtors Anonymous (DA) or even Overeaters Anonymous (OA). I promise you the programs work if you work them: Debtors Anonymous

Good luck to you - and don't forget to ask God for help.

That you SO much for your post! I'm to be banded on 2/18 and am very nervous. But your post encourages me that I can be under 200 lbs also! Maybe I'll even be able to run! Simple things, like crossing your legs, are things I have never been able to do and I'm looking forward to it.

Much love to you!

I use 8 oz skim milk, EAS vanilla Protein powder, and whatever flavoring (right now it is 1 tsp Peanut Butter, 1 tsp banana cream pudding mix, and 1/2 a banana- the more pudding mix, the thicker the shake...) I put it in my little one shot blender and it is sooooo much better than pre-made...

Mmmmm sounds yummy! I'll have to try that!:thumbdown:

Hi Bingo-B! Yea, I agree, add some more Water or skim plus - it should water it down

Hi Aunti Dee!! Keep me posted on your progress! I'm due to be banded 2/18 - the time before surgery flys!!

Love,

M

Congratulations!! I'm so excited for you!!

KEEP GOING FEBRUARY BANDERS...STICK WITH IT AND WE'LL GET THROUGH THE ROUGH SPOTS TOGETHER. XOXOXOX:thumbup:

PS" can someone out there help this computer challenged woman with getting her tracker onto my logins? I can't figure it out, duh:mad2:

Thanks for the pep talk - I think we can all use that now and again!!

For the tracker - you go to Weight Loss - Diet Ticker and create your tracker. Copy that Code.

Then go to User CP, Under Settings & Options click on 'Edit Signature' and Paste the text in the box. Hope that helps!

I thank you all sooo much for your response and support, I really appreciate it with all my heart. I'll keep you posted on my progress.

I've been so blessed with a future-husband who loves me just the way I am, but wants me to be healthy for our lives together. Praise God!

I'm scheduled for surgery on 2/18 and am having SERIOUS second thoughts. I'm 24 years old, just got engaged and am considering a job change to be closer to home. It's been a hectic start to the year and I'm feeling overwhelmed and terrified.

I didn't have any doubts until I got approved a few weeks ago - then the anxiety set in. I want to be healthy and eat 'normally' which I have never done. I know I am a compulsive eater and get my kicks from eating sweets and carbs. I know I need to deal with this. I want to walk down the aisle healthy and fit, not overweight and self-conscious. I want to be healthy for my husband and to be able to carry children.

I know I need to do something, and I thought lap-band was the answer. I've read the books, and I know it's certainly not a miracle worker, it's a tool. But I'm afraid I won't be successful. I thought this would be the kick I need to get into shape and eat right. I know I can work hard - but I'm just really doubting my will power lately. I usually do eat pretty healthy and exercise, except for the occasional sweets/carbs binge - but since the pre-op diet I have been terrible. I want everything in sight and have indulged a few times.

I don't know what to do. I keep praying for the answer, but I guess I'm not listening well enough.

I have my first meeting with the surgeon on Wednesday and feel ashamed to tell him I'm uncertain of my decision for surgery. I don't want to waste his time. I'm just so embarrassed and disgusted with myself today. I want this to work for me. I know these are real fears and I don't know if I should just go through with it or not.

I'm so sorry for rambling on, I just needed to get this out.

Should I put this surgery off?

hello fellow band members, i was banded monday, feb,2nd. i too have "port pain" . maybe they could invent a better way to do that. i would feel wonderful if the port pain were gone. anyone know how long it lasts? i would love to know . i would even count the days. hugs to all my fellow band members.

I think I read on here that those who use the Realize Band VS. the Lap Band have much less port pain because the port is "stapled" on instead of sutured. Is that true?? Or am I making things up in my head again?? :confused:

I am also scared about anesthesia but i really hope not to have a panic attack on the way to the O R Big day Feb 9 th

That's what I'm afraid of too!! Hopefully they will give me a little something extra to "relax"! I don't want to look like a moron having a panic attack in the OR!

hey Melissa. Are you watching your blood sugar? I don't remember reading if you're diabetic. I am and when my DR put me on the liquids we adjusted my insulin & other diabetic meds as well as blood pressure meds.

Hi there! I'm not a diabetic, but I'm "sensitive" because I'm insulin resistant (sort of a precursor to diabetes that comes with polycystic ovarian syndrome).

It's been a rough day, but 2 down and only 12 to go!

I don't have to lose a certain amount of weight, but the diet is 2-3 Protein Shakes a day, plus 3 oz chicken/fish and 2 cups veggies for 2 weeks before surgery. I'm really struggling with it.

Hi Laurie!

I know that quesy feeling - I'm scheduled for 2/18!

Hang in there - everyone on here keeps saying it gets easier!

Hi! I'm a February 18th LapBander also! I'm on pre-op Liquid Protein now - having a hard time! I'm really hungry, shaky and irritable! BUT I'm really glad to have some new friends!

I feel like shit today - day two of Protein shakes!!

I feel shaky, irritable, nauseous, and have a pounding headache!

Is this withdrawal or just hunger?

I'm starting to get scared - if this is what it feels like after surgery, maybe I'm not strong enough for this! :-(

Just a quick tip - I tried Spiru-Tein chocolate high Protein energy meal and it's actually kinda tasty!

I'm on day 2 of my pre-op shakes and right now could possibly eat 3 small children, one baby duck and my left arm.. hell, add my right one too! So I thought I'd better ask before I give Hanibal Lecter a run for his money, will I get used to this eventually? I have to do this for a month :cursing:

You're hysterical!! I feel EXACTLY the same way!! I'm only on day one and I'm starving! I feel shaky and tired and HUNGRY!! By the way - anyone find a tolerable tasting shake??

Yay Owhynot!! I'm so happy for you!! Just relax and enjoy a few days off from work! Please keep us posted on how you're feeling! Much Love!