Melissa Anne

WOW! That sounds familiar! I'm still struggling with the decision - as my surgery got cancelled on 2/18 because I was sick. I just don't know what's right - but I thank you for your story!

Peaches, thanks so much for your advice and honesty. Sometimes God works in mysterious ways. I was due for surgery today, but because I caught a cold over the weekend they had to cancel it. I'm in the midst of changing jobs and may not be able to work in the surgery. Maybe it's just not the right time.

Kartman thanks so much for your support - I need it right now! Best wishes to you also - we're going to do great

Are you glad you didn't cancel? I'm scheduled 2/18 and am thinking about cancelling...

Okay, so I'm PANICKING! Surgery is a week away and I want to turn around and hide! I don't know what to do - I keep praying and asking God to show me what's right. Why can't I just diet and exercise and lose weight on my own? I keep thinking that maybe I should give that another shot. I don't know what to do!

Hi Everyone! I'm scheduled to be banded on 2/18 and am having serious second thoughts. About 5 years ago I was in OA and dropped 75 lbs. I stopped working the program and have slowly put it all back on plus some more. About a year ago I decided I wanted a lap-band. Fast forward to the date of my approval last month, and I've started doubting my decision. All I think of is the food I won't be able to eat anymore! I know I am a compulsive overeater, food addict and am powerless over food. Knowing that, is lapband really a good idea? I know I want to be healthy and regain freedom from compulsion - but I'm not sure this is the best way. Am I being impulsive to think this will be some kind of miracle to make me not want to eat (even though I'm well aware it isn't) - wouldn't it just be best to get back into the rooms and work it naturally? I'm ashamed and embarrassed that I've come this far and now want out! I've told people about my surgery and planned time out of work to accomadate it. What am I going to do? My surgery is all I can think about - it's truly driving me nutty. I've been on my pre-op diet for over a week now, and have majorly cheated twice - a box of oreos on one occasion and another time 2 slices of chocolate cake. If I can't even get through the "diet" how can I get through the new lifestyle??? I'm so sorry for rambling, I'm just so lost in my addict head right now! Can someone help me?

I can totally relate - if it's not food, it's cigarettes, spending money, sex, drugs, alcohol etc. It's a disease and it's not your fault. You can cure it. I'm not sure what's available in Australia, but I would look for a 12 step group - they have a Debtors Anonymous (DA) or even Overeaters Anonymous (OA). I promise you the programs work if you work them: Debtors Anonymous Good luck to you - and don't forget to ask God for help.

That you SO much for your post! I'm to be banded on 2/18 and am very nervous. But your post encourages me that I can be under 200 lbs also! Maybe I'll even be able to run! Simple things, like crossing your legs, are things I have never been able to do and I'm looking forward to it. Much love to you!

Mmmmm sounds yummy! I'll have to try that!:thumbdown:

Hi Bingo-B! Yea, I agree, add some more water or skim plus - it should water it down

Hi Aunti Dee!! Keep me posted on your progress! I'm due to be banded 2/18 - the time before surgery flys!! Love, M

Congratulations!! I'm so excited for you!!

I'm scheduled for surgery on 2/18 and am having SERIOUS second thoughts. I'm 24 years old, just got engaged and am considering a job change to be closer to home. It's been a hectic start to the year and I'm feeling overwhelmed and terrified. I didn't have any doubts until I got approved a few weeks ago - then the anxiety set in. I want to be healthy and eat 'normally' which I have never done. I know I am a compulsive eater and get my kicks from eating sweets and carbs. I know I need to deal with this. I want to walk down the aisle healthy and fit, not overweight and self-conscious. I want to be healthy for my husband and to be able to carry children. I know I need to do something, and I thought lap-band was the answer. I've read the books, and I know it's certainly not a miracle worker, it's a tool. But I'm afraid I won't be successful. I thought this would be the kick I need to get into shape and eat right. I know I can work hard - but I'm just really doubting my will power lately. I usually do eat pretty healthy and exercise, except for the occasional sweets/carbs binge - but since the pre-op diet I have been terrible. I want everything in sight and have indulged a few times. I don't know what to do. I keep praying for the answer, but I guess I'm not listening well enough. I have my first meeting with the surgeon on Wednesday and feel ashamed to tell him I'm uncertain of my decision for surgery. I don't want to waste his time. I'm just so embarrassed and disgusted with myself today. I want this to work for me. I know these are real fears and I don't know if I should just go through with it or not. I'm so sorry for rambling on, I just needed to get this out. Should I put this surgery off?

Thanks for the pep talk - I think we can all use that now and again!! For the tracker - you go to Weight Loss - Diet Ticker and create your tracker. Copy that Code. Then go to User CP, Under Settings & Options click on 'Edit Signature' and Paste the text in the box. Hope that helps!

I thank you all sooo much for your response and support, I really appreciate it with all my heart. I'll keep you posted on my progress. I've been so blessed with a future-husband who loves me just the way I am, but wants me to be healthy for our lives together. Praise God!

I think I read on here that those who use the Realize Band VS. the Lap Band have much less port pain because the port is "stapled" on instead of sutured. Is that true?? Or am I making things up in my head again?? :confused:

That's what I'm afraid of too!! Hopefully they will give me a little something extra to "relax"! I don't want to look like a moron having a panic attack in the OR!

Hi there! I'm not a diabetic, but I'm "sensitive" because I'm insulin resistant (sort of a precursor to diabetes that comes with polycystic ovarian syndrome). It's been a rough day, but 2 down and only 12 to go!

I don't have to lose a certain amount of weight, but the diet is 2-3 protein shakes a day, plus 3 oz chicken/fish and 2 cups veggies for 2 weeks before surgery. I'm really struggling with it.

Hi Laurie! I know that quesy feeling - I'm scheduled for 2/18! Hang in there - everyone on here keeps saying it gets easier!

Hi! I'm a February 18th LapBander also! I'm on pre-op liquid protein now - having a hard time! I'm really hungry, shaky and irritable! BUT I'm really glad to have some new friends!

I feel like shit today - day two of protein shakes!! I feel shaky, irritable, nauseous, and have a pounding headache! Is this withdrawal or just hunger? I'm starting to get scared - if this is what it feels like after surgery, maybe I'm not strong enough for this! :-(

Just a quick tip - I tried Spiru-Tein Chocolate high protein energy meal and it's actually kinda tasty!