Hi everyone! This is my first time posting...but this subject is something i'm having a hard time with"the secret thing"! I have told my sister and a couple very close friends but the two most important people i have to tell is my parents and i have not managed to get the guts to tell them yet!!! I will be having my surgery in Jan 2009 sometime no date set as yet... and i keep putting off telling them. My worst fear is they will think that i will fail with this and it will be a waste of money as they have thought every other diet i have been on has been!