This is what doing the headwork looks like. in Blog 10746 A blog by chocolate_snaps Posted May 8, 2008 Holy smokes, Chocolate. I'm figuratively putting my arms around you right now and giving you a hug. Behind everything you said what I hear is that you need love and respect. Am I close? You deserve to be loved and cherished and certainly not made fun of. (Who is making you the "joke" anyway? I hope not your friends.) I love affirmations. Something like "I have a wonderful new relationship that meets my needs." And your needs could be anything: respect, romance, faithfulness, playfulness and maybe just plain old getting your rocks off. Hang in there, girl.
This is what doing the headwork looks like.
in Blog 10746
A blog by chocolate_snaps
Posted
Holy smokes, Chocolate. I'm figuratively putting my arms around you right now and giving you a hug.
Behind everything you said what I hear is that you need love and respect. Am I close?
You deserve to be loved and cherished and certainly not made fun of. (Who is making you the "joke" anyway? I hope not your friends.)
I love affirmations. Something like "I have a wonderful new relationship that meets my needs."
And your needs could be anything: respect, romance, faithfulness, playfulness and maybe just plain old getting your rocks off.
Hang in there, girl.