well originally i was very anxious about it all thinking that it may not be the best thing for me as i really didnt know enough about it, however after being on this website it has made me so excited about it all after reading so many success stories.
Me myself I am 25 and about 203lbs and 5.5" and want to get to about 126lb's so i know i have still got quite a journey however I want to enjoy the benefits while i am still young instead of waiting another 5-10yrs and be in the same boat but older.
I can understand what you are saying about choosing between them both, my philosophy would be that the bypass is a much more serious operation and if the band does part of the job for you- if you find yourself still falling back on sweet things when emotional you should look into having a counselling session as this may solve the underlying issues.
To be fair, if you are like me you eat these things because you are unhappy with yourself which sort of gets you into a downward cycle while having the band- the more weight you lose the more positive you will feel and the less you will need to rely on things to give you a short term happiness fix.
did you manage to speak to your surgeon today?? I hope they have helped...