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SoCalEm

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Esi in Tell me why the sleeve worked for you when other diets didn't.   
    For me, it was a last resort. I had a come-to-Jesus moment when I realized all else had failed as nothing ever stuck. I was lucky enough to have had a therapist who'd specialized in eating disorders and she was my biggest cheerleader. The absolute necessity of eating nutritious food, and just enough to meet daily goals, forced a reset in my relationship with food. I feel so much better physically and (with very close monitoring by my psychiatrist) am taking one med as opposed to two. Mood swings caused by my sugar addiction have been been eliminated and now I'm able to work on the inherent stuff. It was and continues to be a total gamechanger.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Esi in Anyone Struggle Watching Your Family Eat?   
    No lie, I was angry initially. I don't think I could've stuck to the regulations had I not lived alone. I was fortunate in that case, and didn't cohabitate until almost two months later. I was told my taste buds would reset and have they ever. Because I was eating foods with so much sugar, things like strawberries, oranges, and grapes, just didn't cut it for me. Now that I've abruptly stopped bingeing on added sugars formulated in laboratories and not found anywhere in nature, fruit is a treat to me. I never thought an orange would be so delicious!
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from HeatherE in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    I’ve always entered a room, store, get together, etc and felt like everyone was staring at me because I was so heavy. It was constantly in my mind. Now that I’ve dropped from 2-3XL sizes to M-L sizes, it’s never a concern. It feels like a “weight” has been lifted and I’m free from the paranoia.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from HeatherE in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    I’ve always entered a room, store, get together, etc and felt like everyone was staring at me because I was so heavy. It was constantly in my mind. Now that I’ve dropped from 2-3XL sizes to M-L sizes, it’s never a concern. It feels like a “weight” has been lifted and I’m free from the paranoia.
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    SoCalEm reacted to Esi in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    Being able to reach the car gas tank release lever by simply bending at the waist instead of stepping out of the car to do this!
    And one of the biggest…tucking in a shirt! I look great! I hadn’t done that in probably 15+ years…and my teen said my legs looked longer!!!
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    SoCalEm reacted to Esi in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    Yes! And felt bones in the back of my neck, on my hip, and even saw ribs in my chest. (Still have tons of excess skin elsewhere, but interesting to see/feel these for the first time).
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    SoCalEm reacted to Tina 2.0 in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    Your my hero today!! Those are the victories I long for. While I will never be the smallest person in the room at 6’1, I want to be able to climb stairs, pyramids, hills and more!
    Thank You Yo for the post!
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    SoCalEm reacted to mswillis5 in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    I'm only 38 but after losing my weight, my neighbor asked if I had cancer. They had cancer near that time and were just worried about me losing "so much weight"
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    SoCalEm reacted to STLoser in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    Ha ha ha. I agree with this.. I turned 50 last August.

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    SoCalEm reacted to Shhuijon in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    My husband can wrap his arms fully around me now and I have so much more space in bed! It's pretty awesome 😊
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    SoCalEm reacted to Queen ApisM in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    Yesterday, I had to go get a medical test and was filling out the forms. When I got to the weight part, I wrote "385" and was going to move on to the next section, before my brain synapses fired and I realized I wrote the wrong number and needed to change that 3 to a 2! I've written that 3 in front of my weight for so long, it just became a habit... one I need to break because the 300s were 15 lbs ago. It was very satisfying to scribble out the 3 and make it a 2. 🙂
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    SoCalEm reacted to Jnfinney in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    Wiping my own butt without breaking my back trying to reach 🤦🏼‍♀️
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Happy Stylist in Can you ever drink soda again after surgery   
    It's been almost 3 months since my surgery, and I have to say that carbonation is the thing I miss the most. Even just unflavored seltzer Water. I'd like to try it again at least 6 months out, but I'm afraid it'll lead right back to soda. Good to hear that at least carbonation isn't completely off the table.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Crisscat in How Many Grams of Sugar per Day?   
    I’ve been doing lots of research into sugar and how it effects the body in every aspect. It’s funny that the CDC advises you limit added sugar intake to less than 10% of your total daily calories, while the AHA recommends a limit of 6% daily. I’ve cut out most processed foods and my sugar consumption is very minimal. I can’t tell you what a difference it’s made to my moods and energy levels. My tastebuds no longer need that hit of sweetness that only come from laboratories and whole food like tart strawberries and oranges do the trick. If I really crave chocolate, I go for dark chocolate chips.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Happy Stylist in Can you ever drink soda again after surgery   
    It's been almost 3 months since my surgery, and I have to say that carbonation is the thing I miss the most. Even just unflavored seltzer Water. I'd like to try it again at least 6 months out, but I'm afraid it'll lead right back to soda. Good to hear that at least carbonation isn't completely off the table.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Happy Stylist in Can you ever drink soda again after surgery   
    It's been almost 3 months since my surgery, and I have to say that carbonation is the thing I miss the most. Even just unflavored seltzer Water. I'd like to try it again at least 6 months out, but I'm afraid it'll lead right back to soda. Good to hear that at least carbonation isn't completely off the table.
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    SoCalEm reacted to bakawaka in How Many Grams of Sugar per Day?   
    Hello everyone: what I have learned from almost 10 years post surgery is that my body tells me when I have consumed too much sugar at one time and/or whether I have consumed too much sugar in one day. I still get the "dumping" syndrome if I have too much sugar. I am convinced, however, avoid added sugar as much as possible is a wise choice.
    Wishing success to everyone!
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Jojo614 in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Hi! My program stresses lean Proteins at the stage I'm in (pureed), so I'm eating canned chicken breast, tuna, and sometimes egg salad. They cautioned me on sodium, which is usually very high in canned and condensed Soups. I think the concern is sodium can dehydrate you. Sounds funny, but I searched on Pinterest for simple recipes I could make at home and customize to my liking. Many of the pins link to bariatric patient geared sites with people years into their journey, so there's lots of insight and tips.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Jojo614 in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    I've been sticking to the same old, too. Chicken and mayo, tuna, egg salad. No sugar added applesauce is my go-to side. I bought a sugar free BBQ Sauce called G Hughes, so yesterday I heated up a tiny bowl of pureed chicken and mixed in a dab of sauce. Can't recommend it enough!
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    SoCalEm reacted to freckledmegan in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    I also had a lot of family say I was making the wrong decision. After talking with them, I found out their comments were coming from either ignorance (thinking I was giving up) , fear of the surgery not being safe or that it would change me and somehow make me vain/no fun when going out/etc. Shot all that down and told them I would like their support but I'm doing this for me with or without them. Most came around but not all.

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    SoCalEm reacted to gabbykittyvsg in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Chew on popsicles! They were my lifesaver when I had my sleeve 7 years ago. I stocked up on my favorite sugar free tropical flavors for my post-op revision this next week

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    SoCalEm reacted to karenkeitt in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Revision of gastric bypass done on 2/8 in Concord, North Carolina. Can’t wait for soft foods.
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    SoCalEm reacted to Ccosta0425 in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Hey all had my surgery 2/8/22 just trying to see where everyone is at I started at 358 today I’m down 25lbs at 333
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    SoCalEm reacted to mikala360 in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Hi all! I was sleeved on 2/1/22. Just found this app/group. I am in NC. Just trying to figure out this new stomach thing...

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    SoCalEm reacted to Plumms in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Good morning, in pre-op. Made it through the 2 weeks of Clear Liquids. Went from 270 to 255 during the time. Look forward to getting my pre-weight before weight loss become a problem. So glad to be part of this group. I know I’m not alone. May God bless us all.

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